Bilingual babies!!!

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...i didnt reall know where to put this...but anyway... my oh is Italian, and obviously im english. up until the other week we were living in italy but have moved to London for my oh work (im from manchester). anyway....Mario speaks only italian to Marley whereas i speak only english. i was just wondering if any of you have had experience of this or if any of you ladies have foreign partners and are in the same situation as me.... and how it works etc! i just keep thinking hes gunna get so confused lol!!!! but i really want his to be fluent in both languages1 my oh speaks perfect english and sometime speaks english to him and i tell him off! lol. xxx:roll:
 
I was raised bi-lingual in Finnish and Swedish and my OH in German and Dutch. I speak Finnish to our kids OH speaks German to them and we speak English to each other. I think its a huge advantage in being bi-lingual and as long as your consistant there is no reason for the kids to be confused in my opinion.
 
I have a friend who is French but her husband is English and thier 2 children are bi-lingual. Interestingly though, at home they speak a combination of the two with French nouns but English connecting words because the English language is more flexible. Apparently that is really common with some European languages. They are perfectly capable of speaking both 'proper' French and English though when required so they are not confused rather they exploit the advantages of both languages to be able to express themselves really well. I think its really cool.
 
i study child bilingualism atm! dont worry your child wont end up being confused! if anything it will make them stronger in learning languages in the furture. also the important thing is to be consistant with them. for example make sure you always use english and your oh half always uses italian to them. they will learn both languages as they actually would learn their first language. eventually they will be able to speak italian/english and interchange words however grammatically it will make perfect sense!!!!!!! such a wonderful thing to be able to be billingual!! they are very lucky! i was gonna speak to j in french as i did it the first two years of my degree but im not confident enough to try and teach him when if i get it wrong then hell always be wrong and be a lit harder to change!!! very jealous!!
xx
 
I'm a Childminder and have looked after 4 different children with one french parent and 1 english parent. All have been fluent in both languages and very intelligent for their ages. They have no problems using both languages. One of them even speaks some sign language!! :)

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thankyou all for your replies! i feel much more confident now that Marley wont have problems! i'm gunna talk to oh later and tell him NO ENGLISH lol.. we're just gunna have to be really strict! im excited for when he starts talking now!!!! lol. :))
 
hell pick it up no worries! its FAR easier for babies to learn a million languages at once then for adults to learn one foreign language. however when he does start talking dont be upset or worried if he does interchange between language. its not that he is confnused by it, its called code switching (the ability to take words from one language and put it in another language)>Also, try and make sure marley always speaks in italian to your oh and always english to you at least at first. but if he going to keep it forever then you have to mke sure its always spoken to him throughout life, as because there is so much english around here (ironically lol) then if you were to stop at 5 for example there is a chance that he might lose the fluency! x
 
i speak swedish to Noa, OH speaks mandinka (or wollof) to him and we speak english to eachother.
 
oh god girls im so jealous of your multi lingual babies!! x
 
I speak english to my son and my husband speaks Turkish, we do speak a bit of both to him as well and mix it up alot but hes picked it up brilliant.. speaks both fluently and 3 and can translate for people like if i say go and tell you dad food ready he'll go and tell him in turkish etc.. We'Re hoping to introduce german to him this year or next as his 3rd language.
 
All my 3 step kids and myself are bilingual - spoken english and British sign language. OH only uses BSL. I speak english to all the children and he signs to all of the including the baby even tho only the 3rd child is deaf. Eva will probably start signing first before speaking. Simon is already teaching her the signs for mummy, daddy and milk lol!
 
Stick at it , it will be so worth it . My oh's nieces are well able to slip comfortable between irish and english . We speak both Irish and english to Aoibheann too and she seems to have no problems .
 
My 9 year old stepson isn't from a welsh home but his schoolfriends who live on the same road are - he's learnt welsh since he started school and is fluent, so when his dad asks him to find something out from his friends, he automatically speaks to them in welsh.

My baby will be the same, unlike my daughter who lives in Cheltenham - I need to learn welsh so I can teach her so she won't be left out.

The benefits of learning a duel language or being bilingual at home, is it is easier to pick up languages and it's supposed to help the brain learn more in general.

Nothing to add that hasn't already been said!
 
Me and hubby speak English to the kids and I do the sign language to them too but I also speak Cherokee to them too - will they get confused I'm doing three did things?? I don't want them to be muddled haha!!
 
I would love my children to be bi-lingual. I am trilingual by degree but would probably be odd to speak to them in Greek or Dutch - not sure it will get them far!!
 
if yuo learn a language earlier one of theories is that you dont have many other cognitive abilities in your brain and so therefore its easier to pick up language The older you get the, the more cognitive abilities you have in your brain and therefore you find it harder to learn other languages It because asy ou get older you learn new things - ir in this case language - as whole chunks and cant break it down in to smaller usable chunks that can be adapted to different circumstances occasions etc.

You will find that your children may struggle to be as fluent at 2 language as other children at the same age in one language. If you want to teach your child and bring them up as bilingual, you would HAVE to fully immerse them in that language. EG, i speak french fluently and phil english, i would have to speak no other language BUT french to them ever for it to be beneficial. Evelina for eample would HAVE to speak swedish all the time, Demba speak wollof (sic) all the time and noa would learn english from everywhere else, otherwise it wont happen properly.

Evie your kids wont grow up confused.........worry not. However learning 2/3 languages (even to the point of bi/tri lingualism) as a child does't mean you;re predisposed to learn lots more language fluently throughout the entirety of your life. After a certain point generally found to be through puberty you will slowly become worse and worse and picking up new languages. Doesn't mean you'll be smarter in general if you get me!??!

Much love
x
 
My daughter confused the man at the shop today
Osiyo do-hi-tsu o-s-da hi-tsu-tsa a-ga-ta-do-gi-a a-ma a-wi-du-li

Basically

Hello how are you? Your a good boy I'm thirsty I want some water

Lol cheeky lol! The man was like huh?!
Lol

On the way out she said
Do-na-da-gv-ho-i ha wa

See you later ok

Lol!!!!
 

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