babyblonde
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He was so lovely and kind!
I walked in and immediately felt really nervous and started rambling about how we'd got bfp twice in the last two months and nobody believed us and then brandished my digi from this morning, two cheapies with lines on and my urine sample.
He looked at me like I was completely bonkers and said 'of course I believe you!'! He couldnt believe the doctor at the hospital had been so horrible and said it was obvious that I had been pregnant and she must have been having a very bad day but that was no excuse. He said he didnt even need to send off the urine sample I did and the clearblues are better than the tests they do anyway.
I told him I was scared something would go wrong and he very honestly said, well it could as it is a high probability in early pregnancy (as we all know anyway) but that the way to be is just to remember that I am pregnant not sick, and to behave as normal, not worry about doing things which 'might hurt the baby' etc etc. He said that pregnancies are tenacious and that if the little bugger wants to stick then it'll stick - and if it isn't perfect then it won't.
So he's signed me up for the midwifery service and I should hear from them soon.
I;ve decided not to stress about this pregnancy. I'm just going to take each day as it comes and enjoy being pregnant for as long as it lasts - obviously I really hope it is to full term! I;m more prepared now for the fact that not everything always goes to plan (although obviously it would be devastating if it didnt) and hoping that by staying more relaxed about things I am giving this baby the best chance.
Well done if you;ve got through the ramble to this point!
I walked in and immediately felt really nervous and started rambling about how we'd got bfp twice in the last two months and nobody believed us and then brandished my digi from this morning, two cheapies with lines on and my urine sample.
He looked at me like I was completely bonkers and said 'of course I believe you!'! He couldnt believe the doctor at the hospital had been so horrible and said it was obvious that I had been pregnant and she must have been having a very bad day but that was no excuse. He said he didnt even need to send off the urine sample I did and the clearblues are better than the tests they do anyway.
I told him I was scared something would go wrong and he very honestly said, well it could as it is a high probability in early pregnancy (as we all know anyway) but that the way to be is just to remember that I am pregnant not sick, and to behave as normal, not worry about doing things which 'might hurt the baby' etc etc. He said that pregnancies are tenacious and that if the little bugger wants to stick then it'll stick - and if it isn't perfect then it won't.
So he's signed me up for the midwifery service and I should hear from them soon.
I;ve decided not to stress about this pregnancy. I'm just going to take each day as it comes and enjoy being pregnant for as long as it lasts - obviously I really hope it is to full term! I;m more prepared now for the fact that not everything always goes to plan (although obviously it would be devastating if it didnt) and hoping that by staying more relaxed about things I am giving this baby the best chance.
Well done if you;ve got through the ramble to this point!
