Bad news for me

[Maximus17]

Hi I went to see a gynaecologist yesterday and I have been told that I have to have laparoscopy and hyestroscopy soon as she thinks I might have uterine scarring from my c section. And if that’s the case this could be causing my infertility
So as I am on the 2 weeek wait now I need to see if I am pregnant probably not now anyway and than have the operation. So gutted

 

[Sunflower1]

So sorry hon. What a stressful time. Keep us updated. xx

 

[Mariexo]

So sorry to hear of your struggles Maximus, please keep us updated on how you are getting on xx

 

[rainbow.23]

So sorry hun, hope it all goes well and helps you conceive soon x

 

[Maximus17]

thank you soo much , I think the most difficult bit is that I can't share my fertility problems with anyone in real life, noone knows we are trying, and also even if I told them no one will understand how much it gets me down. If we didn't conceive this month I will have this operation and than after couple of months we will start trying again. I just want this to stop to a point I was thinking could I accept that I am not meant to have another baby and just move on. All I see around is pregnant women everywhere and babies. I never ever thought I would be in this situation after conceiving our DD so easily. But also even if I got pregnant this month, if I have this condition, it could cause MC, and also it's not advisable to get pregnant, arghhh I just can't win

 

[Ttc1234]

Sorry to hear this. How long have you been ttc no 2 and how long did it take to conceive no one?

 

[KatD]

oh sweetie, it might seem like a dire situation now but let's look at the bright side, you received a diagnosis that is treatable and that is wonderful news. Yes, it is hard to wrap your head around how everything can go so horribly wrong but in a few months you will be ready to try again and I'm sure that you won't have to wait long before you will get your bfp. I wish there were some magic words to fix this NOW...just know you have all of us here rooting for you, ready to support you in every way we can. XxxxX

 

[Maximus17]

Thank you so much for your words. I got pregnant with my daughter after 3 months. We have been trying for the second one for only 3 months but I have been having very bad pains infections so I just knew there was something wrong so yes it hasn’t been long but I don’t think I could get pregnant naturally if all these problems. Well if I happened to be pregnant this month it would be a miracle.