Blooming heck this thread got me worried. So glad things have been sorted.
I dont make this common knowledge but my hubby told me he didn't love me on New years eve when our daughter was 2, it was also the same day I would have had my 2nd baby if I hadn't miscarried. I was devestated as I loved him very much. He left and went to live with his parents. 5 days later he'd come to his senses and realised he was being a total tosser, that he did love me and wanted to make it work. I made him go to councelling as I told him I would only ever take him back once. That was 5 years ago and we have simply gone from strength to strength. I think what happens sometimes is we forget about them as we are so caught up with motherhood and men just cant cope with feeling left out and need to feel they are important.