Back ache 4dpo

[sarah120281]

Normally don't get menstrual back ache but anyone get backache at 4dpo it's like my backs a little stiff at the bottom, worried if I am pregnant/implanting it's not going well as I've lost 3 before

 

[Donna88]

I get that and I get it at different times in my cycle too. Try not to worry; I understand you are bound to from your previous losses but stress wont make it any better for you. I'm 5dpo so similar to you and we are both still very early on to be having any symptoms (although I have been just like you and symptom spotting)

Is there anything you can do to take your mind off the wait?

 

[sarah120281]

Thank you lovely for helping reassure me. Yes I am bound by them thinking them always end before they begin. It's not always been like this for me my first preg lasted and I have a wonderful 4 year old girl. Then 2 years later 3 losses prior to 6week. So I'm just occupied by these worrisome thoughts thinking it'll be doomed before I get chance to get my blood thinners. Not that I want them I am just hoping they'll help my condition. It's more like stiffness can I only feel it when I move so can't be outs to do with that X

 

[Donna88]

I can completely undestand why you feel the way you do Sarah; you're just wanting to give your baby the best chances as soon as possible and I can't imagine how stressful that all must be for you. I'm so sorry for your losses. There are plenty of people on here to reassure you and be here as a sounding board for you though

We should be testing around the same time; fingers crossed we both get bfp and sticky beans

 

[sarah120281]

That would be great Donna, no one understands in the "real world" or it's not something I'd openly discuss with anyone other than family. I am frantic about it but desperate now to get to the point for daring to try X