MissSarahLee
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Hello guys, not sure I've posted this in the best forum but I'm a bit new here...I really need some advice I honestly don't know how to handle this one.
I am 11 weeks pregnant right now and in love with the baby's father. We are a strong couple and agree on most things. One thing I don't approve of, I hate, is the fact that my boyfriend smokes pot with his male friends, on weekends, which he describes as a 'social' thing.
I have never touched the stuff and I really don't want our little one to grow up thinking tht this is ok. But yesterday I was horrified when my boyfriend expressed seriously that he wants little one to grow up thinking it is an OK thing to do! He gave some argument about not lying to children and how "its not bad for you at all, its even seen to be good for you" and all this junk...typical stoner excuses. He even said that he would smoke with our child when they get to a 'reasonable age'. I am so unhappy and disgusted, and I every time I try to argue with him that this is wrong, he says hes going to go and find medical journals that prove him right. Its like he is on a mission to go against me with this.
I really dont know what I can say to him to change his mind, i'm not going to let it happen, but i feel helpless! Its not like I can stop my boyfriend seeing the child, which sounds ridiculous to even think about.
Please give me some advice guys, and be totally honest
I am 11 weeks pregnant right now and in love with the baby's father. We are a strong couple and agree on most things. One thing I don't approve of, I hate, is the fact that my boyfriend smokes pot with his male friends, on weekends, which he describes as a 'social' thing.
I have never touched the stuff and I really don't want our little one to grow up thinking tht this is ok. But yesterday I was horrified when my boyfriend expressed seriously that he wants little one to grow up thinking it is an OK thing to do! He gave some argument about not lying to children and how "its not bad for you at all, its even seen to be good for you" and all this junk...typical stoner excuses. He even said that he would smoke with our child when they get to a 'reasonable age'. I am so unhappy and disgusted, and I every time I try to argue with him that this is wrong, he says hes going to go and find medical journals that prove him right. Its like he is on a mission to go against me with this.
I really dont know what I can say to him to change his mind, i'm not going to let it happen, but i feel helpless! Its not like I can stop my boyfriend seeing the child, which sounds ridiculous to even think about.
Please give me some advice guys, and be totally honest