Baby number 5

[Natalie2]

Where to start
I'm already a mummy to 4 beautiful kids my youngest is only 9 months old
And me and my partner ( husband we are married ) Found out 2 days ago that I'm pregnant with my 5th child. Only 5 weeks

We was using condoms but somehow manage to get pregnant
I'm worried incase we wont manage and I'm also worried about what everyone will say . As I have one person who Is my 2nd childs auntie who always has something to say and it's never nice things when I'm pregnant

I dont wanna stress out as I am high risk in pregnancy due to all my babys being preterm

I dont know what to do. I dont believe in abortions it would kill me if I did that. But I dont wanna be judged for having 4 children and another on the way

Someone please give me some sort of advice

 

[TTC no2]

It is no ones business how many children u have. Start sticking up for u and ur baby. Frig the aunt, tell her to shut up. As long u care and love ur babies .

 

[Natalie2]

I've brought up 3 children on my own before me and my husband to married and had a baby and now this one . They have everything they want even if means I go without. May not have loads of money but they are looked after just pissed me off when people think they got a opinion shes always been the same

I want the baby . And I'll block out anyone who thinks it's a bad idea

Sorry for the rant it just pisses me off

 

[TTC no2]

Ur are entitled to ur rant..

Yes just block them out. It's you having this baby ain't her. Dont be afraid to speak up for yourself .

 

[chattychar1990]

Who cares what anyone else thinks?
If you want the baby then have it. You say you don't believe in abortions so your only option is to have this baby.
Aslong as your children are brought up in a loving home that is all that matters.

 

[WinterWolf]

Have as many kids as you want. Life's too short. People will judge you if you have anything other than 2 kids anyways lol

 

[Natalie2]

I'm not planning on telling anyone till 12week mark. Went doctors yesterday got my folic acid and have my first appointment with midwife on 21st October with same midwife I had with my 9 month old lol

 

[SugaryIris]

I’m one of 5 girls and loved growing up with so many siblings.

Congratulations on your pregnancy, ignore everyone else and enjoy it. X

 

[Wanderite]

If you are done, I would also discuss permanent birth control options and make plans before the baby is born. If you aren't done, then don't worry about it!

 

[Natalie2]

I'm on the waiting list to be sterilzed anyway to after this baby I'll be getting myself sorted . As no birth control works tried everything