Yes it's not supposed to work if you use it for selfish ends. My Nan is a spiritualist so I know a bit about it.
Psychic abilities aside over 70% of women guess the sex of their unborn child correctly so I think that somewhere your body probably knows because of hormones or something. I knew Mel was a boy although I only had strong feelings about it during the first tri- later on I doubted it. This time I'm having girl thoughts but we'll see! I did try not to tell people I knew what I thought it was and tried not to imagine it as one sex or the other as I wanted to be happy whatever it was. I'd love another boy and I'd love a girl too so I really don't mind who this is.
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Psychic abilities aside over 70% of women guess the sex of their unborn child correctly so I think that somewhere your body probably knows because of hormones or something. I knew Mel was a boy although I only had strong feelings about it during the first tri- later on I doubted it. This time I'm having girl thoughts but we'll see! I did try not to tell people I knew what I thought it was and tried not to imagine it as one sex or the other as I wanted to be happy whatever it was. I'd love another boy and I'd love a girl too so I really don't mind who this is.
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