My OH shunned my wanting a shower.
But having got most things myself, barring the bigger ones that OH paid for, my top ten have been..........
1. our reusable nappies (Tots Bots all in ones)
2. breastpump (Medela Swing - nearly £100 but didn't have one first time and regretted it)
3. baby bouncer chair (not one that needs batteries, just a simple one)*
4. moses basket & bedding*
5. car seat (Recaro from Mothercare, well velvety, mmm)
6. a stack of maternity & sleep-feed-bras
7. Widgey Pillow (for feeding, propping up baby, using as a huge cushion, blah)
8. tons of various sized white suits/vests (which I then tie-dyed all sorts of colours)*
9. material baby sling for carrying*
10. bottles & Hipp Organic formula - I also didn't have these first time, so when I failed at boob, I had nothing else!