It's probably fun to play happy families and all, but thats not how it really is but it sounds to me that this is how your hubby see's it.
Someone has got to get out there and work for the 3 of you (or more if you have anymore kids), and I don't know how he can expect you to return to work just like that after having a baby, even if he doesn't expect you return to work, one of you has got to, maybe he could get a few weeks paid paternity leave?
like miricle babe said; your pregnant for all the while, gone through all the pregnancy stuff then your expected to give birth and not be there to enjoy your baby, I don't think so, especially if you have shorter maternity leave than everyone else.
Enjoy your baby while you can before you return to work, my sister hardly got to see her 1st born because she had to return to work quite fast and she regretted it because it was my mum who saw her do new things and stuff and also she wanted to breastfeed but couldnt because of returning to work so early.
Breastfeed for as long as u can if you really want to breastfeed, then at least your baby has had breast milk for a while too.
But if you can't solve ur problem then Paternity leave would be a good thing to look in to, maybe your hubby will change his mind after being at home with the baby for a few weeks anyways.
Good luck