Argue.. hate each other.. something cute.. Love each other again!

KelliMarie

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Argh, my head is going mental..

Don't know whether this is to do with my hormones or whether its just me & my partner(Freddie)

We had a massive argument the other day & then i cried & stayed in the car, we didnt speak at all for hours!

we don't tell our families when we argue, cause really its between us, so we just acted normal when we are around them & then as soon as they leave the room we are back to not talking..

He is on holidays from his work atm! he goes back wednesday. he told me we would do something together & make our relationship better but he hasnt planned anything with me:/ i dont care about the cost, id happily have a picnic or just spend time together and be silly! i guess, i just want to feel loved by him but i really don't.

i don't know how to tell him cause if i tell him he goes oh what do you wanna do, there is nothing to do.. etc etc. really gets to me we have been together for 4 and half years nearly & he should know what i like to do.
i sometimes think its because im pregnant, that maybe it has made us distant from each other but i don't know anymore.

i just feel like i mean nothing to him, i don't feel loved and i don't feel like a couple atm! id never dream of leaving him but i just don't know if i can keep going & if its still like this when our baby is born its going to be horrible for our little boy:/

Just feel like he is using me for sex atm, seems to be the only thing we do together... (sorry to be crude!)

its stressing me out something mad, don't know what to do!
 
Lol ehm recognisable that's men mines like are you hungry what do you want to eat same question when he asks me if am hungry then argues when i don't know or come up with a suggestion or ask what he fancies grrr
I think they need ideas putting into their heads but can understand that's a tough one too seeing the fact the don't always listen ! Or remember for that matter. I'd suggest come up with something like going out for a meal and give him a suggestion and a time when it's happening you might have the chance something more creative comes from it don't feel bad if it doesn't or he might come up with something better or different what he would like to do too.. I don't like telling him straight without the possibility of annoyance or argument coming from it but you got to tell him he's a man haha good luck chick x


David Victor JR. 21.40. - 19.05.'13 - 6lb 11oz /tapatalking
 
Just feel like he is using me for sex atm, seems to be the only thing we do together... (sorry to be crude!)its stressing me out something mad, don't know what to do!

Girls would often think like what you feels if they have some problems with the other half. Actually, it is not the truth and i think we are too sensitive. Your OH of course love you which can be seen from your four years'relationship. Just relax and do not think too much and be tender to him and make him feel that you care about him instead of being cold.
 

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