Dragonfly Fi
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Isnt it amazing how a few words can change so much?
before the 23rd when someone asked me if i was okay, even if i was a bit down, i could reply with 'Yeah i'm cool, bit miffed about Liams socks (for example) but generally okay'
but how do you swap that round?
before this week i just couldnt, i couldnt not bring myself to utter the words 'i'm fine' when people asked me that question... it was like words stuck in my throat - how do you describe it. its the opposite of what it normally is
normally its like
'Yep i'm good' (meaning maybe 90% good) and then maybe 'but so n so has wound me up today'
now its like 'i'm fine' (meaning maybe 90% absolutely properly rubbish) and then maybe 'but i am living, surviving, breathing, dressing myself in the morning, eating ocassionally (and sometimes too much) and generally getting by'
How do you deal with that?
today i managed to utter an 'i'm fine' rather than feeling i needed to explain my feelings, which is good and positive but i am wondering wether that will ever be all it is, wether there will ever be a time that those words dont highlight just how fucking rubbish it all is. Will it ever be more than an uttering?
will it always be a fucking mission to have to speak to someone or to see someone in the street? I feel like i have deeply, deeply changed, like my innocence has been stolen away. I feel like before this everything was BRILLIANT because nothing was that bad. Now i feel like it couldnt be worse really...
Thats my aim, one day i just want to hear the words 'are you okay' and not be totally knocked for six by them.
that would be nice
*end of random rant*
before the 23rd when someone asked me if i was okay, even if i was a bit down, i could reply with 'Yeah i'm cool, bit miffed about Liams socks (for example) but generally okay'
but how do you swap that round?
before this week i just couldnt, i couldnt not bring myself to utter the words 'i'm fine' when people asked me that question... it was like words stuck in my throat - how do you describe it. its the opposite of what it normally is
normally its like
'Yep i'm good' (meaning maybe 90% good) and then maybe 'but so n so has wound me up today'
now its like 'i'm fine' (meaning maybe 90% absolutely properly rubbish) and then maybe 'but i am living, surviving, breathing, dressing myself in the morning, eating ocassionally (and sometimes too much) and generally getting by'
How do you deal with that?
today i managed to utter an 'i'm fine' rather than feeling i needed to explain my feelings, which is good and positive but i am wondering wether that will ever be all it is, wether there will ever be a time that those words dont highlight just how fucking rubbish it all is. Will it ever be more than an uttering?
will it always be a fucking mission to have to speak to someone or to see someone in the street? I feel like i have deeply, deeply changed, like my innocence has been stolen away. I feel like before this everything was BRILLIANT because nothing was that bad. Now i feel like it couldnt be worse really...
Thats my aim, one day i just want to hear the words 'are you okay' and not be totally knocked for six by them.
that would be nice
*end of random rant*