any other ADHD adults here?

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The tea thread got me thinking, I am an ADHD survivor as I call it - it wasnt diagnosed or even recognised when I was a kid so I was just labelled as very naughty, and later, emotionally disturbed. Ive learned to focus on things and curb the hyperactivity as ive gotten older, and it definitely doesnt affect me negatively - in fact im pretty sure its the reason im so creative and "the life and soul" of a party :lol:

Are there any other ADHD adults here, and how did you learn to control it?
 
i have ADHD
not too bad
i dont really control is as such
im generally hyper all the time

trust me you dont want to be near me when im excited haha
i tend to scream alot too :shock:

everyone tends to look down on me and just think im some kind of freak
but ive learnt not to care
i am who i am :D
 
i have adhd and have had ever since i was a child.

it makes it difficult in work as i cant concentrate as well as other employees therefor gert less work done and im on a lower wage.

also i find it hard to get to sleep at night coz my brain is always active
 
tezzy said:
i have adhd and have had ever since i was a child.

it makes it difficult in work as i cant concentrate as well as other employees therefor gert less work done and im on a lower wage.

also i find it hard to get to sleep at night coz my brain is always active

im like that
i tend to mess around more than work
and i cant sleep at night either, so i tire myself out by stayin u until i cant keep my eyes on and then when im in bed im out :D
 
why do you think im always on here at work :lol:

And the sleeping thing, yes it takes me a long time to switch off. The scenarios and stories I play through my head are unbelievable lol
 
its hard aswell
to have a baby when you have ADHD
as they get all the attention
i feel so petty that sometimes i am jealous of her :roll:
 
im the same!

i also have OCD so it makes it worse for me too!
 
ure not a mes...

it just means we're both normal!!!
 
no offence to anyone but....
does ADHD actually exist?
the kids ive met who are supposed to have marley need a good slap around their buttocks and some strict dicipline and consistant bounderies.
i think its a shame that parents are so keen to label their kids nowadays. Do they realise that label will hang around their necks for the whole of their lives.
 
it does exist
i was disaplined when i was little
i know right from wrong
if i did anything wrong i got in trouble
its something you cannot control and unless you have ADHD you cannot fully understand it

i dont do the things i do because im naughty
i cant help but do them, its like a urge who have to release
 
woah woah woah


yes ADHD AND ADD exist.

i was a good kid.. i wasnt naughty or disruptive in school and if i was it was beyond my control

life is so frustrating when u cant concentrate on things, my mind wanders when i dont want it to. i cant play with rhys for more than 10 min at a time coz i get frustrated with the need for change. i cant talk to somebody on the phone for long or chat on msn coz i just need, need something different to think about every 10 minutes. even with watching a film or reading a book i need to switch it off, go to the loo or make a cup of tea every 5 minutes, i hardly ever go out to the cinema or can take long trips in the car as i just get so so upset and frustrated.

having ADHD and OCD is the hardest thing in my life
 
Charlotte & Emily said:
it does exist
i was disaplined when i was little
i know right from wrong
if i did anything wrong i got in trouble
its something you cannot control and unless you have ADHD you cannot fully understand it

i dont do the things i do because im naughty
i cant help but do them, its like a urge who have to release



yes i agree thats exactly what it is like, its a need, an urge and totally beyond our control
 
it absolutely does exist.

I had no idea I had it until I was in my early 20's, as a child I was constantly hyperactive, bored, done really badly at shcool even though im quite intelligent, I was violent towards my family and constantly being punished for something or other. That doesnt do the extent of it justice as its hard to put into words.

Then I had a friend with a teenage son with ADHD, and I recognised so much of my own behavour in him, I went to the docs and found out its not just something children have and grow out of, its something that stays with you. I was diagnosed at 22.

The thing with ADHD is it shares so many characterisitcs as other conditions, including depression, (im also bipolar - great mix lol) that its almost impossible to tell if your an adult with it.

But to anyone who says it doesnt exist - it absolutely does!
 
I was diagnosed hyperactive when I was 7 (1985) which was quite early to be diagnosed in this country, particularly by an old fashioned doctor as our family GP was. My mother was greatly relieved by this, since she had been convinced that her parenting skills (which were fabulous) were not up to the job and that it was her fault that I was 'misbehaving' in the way that I was.

I didn't have it too badly, but was prone to 'episodes' the results of which I wouldn't remember (rather like when some people are drunk). The doctor didn't really suggest much in the way of treatment, but said I would grow out of it.

The doctor was wrong. I still have a low concentration span, poor spatial awareness, poor co-ordination, a tendency to insomnia etc When I was first diagnosed, a family friend suggested avoiding E numbers 100 - 180 and 200 - 290 which helped significantly. I still try to avoid additives, although they don't affect me as badly. Too much cola still makes me appear drunk, though.

I developed various coping strategies. For example, at Uni when I had several essays to do, I could not do one, finish it and move on to the next. I found it much easier to have them all on the go at once and dip into each of them as I got bored.

My brother in law was hyperactive when he was a child and HAS grown out of it. However, this means that I want to keep an eye on our child and ask the doctor about any warning signs since there is a large genetic component to hyperactivity.
 
budge said:
no offence to anyone but....
does ADHD actually exist?
the kids ive met who are supposed to have marley need a good slap around their buttocks and some strict dicipline and consistant bounderies.
i think its a shame that parents are so keen to label their kids nowadays. Do they realise that label will hang around their necks for the whole of their lives.


actualy doctors diagnose ADHD not parents. and its not a label its a fact. if a child has dyxlecia(sp sorry) would you give a 'good slap around the buttocks' to them if they coudnt spell a long word?
 

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