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Any one TTC 1st child?

I'm ttc first baby, been off contraception since May been actively trying for 2 months. I'm 11 days late done a few tests and all BFN :shakehead: gonna do another test this week. So hopefully have BFP soon if not, then might have to go to doctors

If anyone has any advice there more than welcome x
 
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Sounds like you might have had an anovulatory cycle. That's where you miss an ovulation and have a cycle that's longer than normal. It's nothing to be concerned about as apparently we all have them from time to time.
Either that or you're one of those women who don't get positive results on HPTs. I've read that some women don't get them months into their pregnancies. I think you're just going to have to sit and wait for a few more days and see if AF arrives. I don't think the Dr will do a blood test until you've completely missed a period, I.e one month late. I guess it probably depends on your Dr though.
Try not to let it stress you out though xx
 
That is what I'm thinking too didn't know there was a name for it. I'm also thinking why does it take so long to get a positive (11 days) surely it will take up to 7 days. Read some posts it takes a month??!! I suppose everyone is different but that is torture
 
We've been trying for #1 since July and I have to say I've been incredibly naive about it happening as I thought we'd get pregnant the first try.

Our first was a happy accident but I lost at 8w (this week exactly) so it's hard right now. All my friends have just had it happen a lot quicker than me and don't have much to add to help other than feeling sorry for me (it is nice that they care but eh makes me feel worse..)

I'm being referred as they suspect I have a bicornate uterus but my estrogen also came back low and from what I can tell I don't always ovulate.

It's very stressful knowing my body isn't working as it should and it kinda made me depressed so I gave up supplements and worrying.

If it happens it happens, just trying to be positive :)

:dust: and :bfp: to everyone
 
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I'm 13 days late and :bfn:

I have come to the conclusion I'm not pregnant and expecting :witch:to arrive any day :roll:

I hope u all have :bfp: soon

:dust:
 
Hi I am also ttc for the first time. On cycle 4 now. After 12 years on the pill I thought coming off it would result in pregnancy pretty quickly but no such luck. Already finding it quite frustrating! Good Luck to you xxx
I have been on the pill for 10 years and changed to the implant for 4 years - I'm hoping this hasn't messed up my system! We will wait and see.....
 
Hi all, new here and ttc conceive my first. 32 years old. 5th cycle but sex has been our main issue lol. He's just the once or twice a month sort so been hard to get it when needed but this month ovulated late and low and behold bbt spiked next day so fx 10dpo and lookstriphasic :)
Baby dust to all
 
Hi Cppeace, sounds like you're describing my Hubble ha ha. I've had really persuade him on a few occasions! x
 
Mine has just had alot of tiredness and toothaches in the past couple months, but in general my sex drive has always been higher than his dven though he's 5 1/2 years younger than me lol. Took a hpt ghis morn bfn but just 10dpo will test again in a few days temp is still higher than avg triphasic chart :):dance:
 
Hey I'm new to this too. I came off the pill in July and so far no luck, my friends are all getting pregnant around me and I'm finding it so frustrating :( I've convinced myself I can't have any children which I know is ridiculous but that's the truth.
 
Hi again all, well though I'm still very emotional, af showed up yesterday so no baby for me yet :/ ordered me some red clover and red raspberry tea, these should help with hormones and uterus toning. Baby dust to you all.
 
Ella I know where uour coming from I remember as a child thinking I couldn't have kids anc now this will be the 6th month ttc for me. I know I'm healthy and my cycles pretty normal so just comes down to everything being right.
 
Hi everyone !!:wave:

I am new to this! ttc first baby for two months only (I know im early still). Any one recommend any supplements to help things progress? Do supplements even work? I am taking folic acid atm

Thanks!!:)
 
I have been advised to take folic acid so u are on the right track. I'm not taking anything else as I don't believe in taking to many supplements
 
I took a test today even though I'm not due one until Subday. I was convinced it was going to be positive but nope! Actually gutted! I'm being ridiculous I know.
 
Sorry to hear that Ellabella, I know exactly how you feel - it's so frustrating! There is still time yet though if you are not due on until Sunday. Keep faith!

How long have you been TTC?
 
Thanks J9nine. We have been TTC since August and I'm currently 2 days late. I'm trying not to getting excited as I think it's stress related but here's hoping
 

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