Any one TTC 1st child?

[sjavery]

Hi guys,

I'm new to all this forum stuff as have never really felt the need to share with other people about things but TTC is proving to be very frustrating. I can't really face talking to people in person about it as my friends are either pregnant, have children or my best friend has been diagnosed with PCOS so I feel bad complaining to her when she is finding things 10x harder!

Would like to chat with people from all experiences, just trying to find some support and hopefully give support too!

Thanks guys
xxx

 

[Tina18]

Hey Sjavery

Welcome to Pf! I to am TTC my first baby and so far the journey has not gone well, I came off the pill in June ans caught straight away, unfortunately I lost the baby at 10 + 3, so now I am starting all over again! Although it was s horrible thing everything happens for a reason and I know I will get my rainbow baby at the end! Stay positive and enjoy the journey as stressing will not help! ️Xxxx

 

[sjavery]

I'm so sorry to hear that and I wish you all the luck with your rainbow baby. I'm trying really hard not to stress about it! I was sure my body was feeling different this month so I took a test 4 days before AF was due and BFN. Wish I'd waited to see if I was late now but I was too impatient!
xx

 

[fairyprincess]

Hi, I'm also trying to conceive my 1st and have been diagnosed with PCOS. It's a hard journey!

 

[snowbee]

Hiya and welcome. We are also ttc our first. Been three years for us (I have pcos so makes it a bit harder) but really hoping we will get there soon!

 

[Foxy24]

Hi! I'm trying to conceive no1 as well. Been 19 months so far. Just try not to stress and stay positive xx

 

[CornishGirl]

Hi, I'm another TTC my first.
This is month two for us, so very early days. I'm trying to relax and not think too much about it all, but it's hard when it's something you want so badly.

 

[Unicorn]

Welcome sjavery, we are ttc #1 as well, it's been the hardest year of my life but hope that I'm finally starting to relax now! I hope your journey is fun and short xx

 

[strongminded]

I am trying for my first too. Been 2 cycles. Still learning alot about my body and signs of ovulation etc. Hard not to symptom spot and sometimes find it hard to keep positive. But then again just have to hope for the best. Good luck all

 

[April4415]

We're ttc 1st baby and starting on 3rd cycle. Have a lot of praise for the couples who have been trying years, it's a hard time for something you can't control for something you so desperately want xxx

 

[Crazycatwoman]

Hey, we are TTC our 1st too, on cycle 2 xxxx can't wait for our rainbow baby xxx

 

[sjavery]

Wow, hi everyone thanks for all responses! I know it's still early days for us and I admire all your positivity! Has anybody tried anything to help? I've just ordered preseed and ovulation tests as I'm positive AF is imminent and all the things I've been feeling has been PMS not pregnancy!

 

[DonnaKebab]

Trying to conceive my first child too. On secons cycle of trying. Wish u the best xx Finding it stressful already xx

 

[Unicorn]

Wow, hi everyone thanks for all responses! I know it's still early days for us and I admire all your positivity! Has anybody tried anything to help? I've just ordered preseed and ovulation tests as I'm positive AF is imminent and all the things I've been feeling has been PMS not pregnancy!

All I'd suggest is just to try and stay relaxed with it! I'd avoid adding supplements or doing anything too much until you know what's going on with your body and just try not to become all consumed by it and enjoy the experience with your partner xx

 

[Unicorn]

Hey, we are TTC our 1st too, on cycle 2 xxxx can't wait for our rainbow baby xxx

I'm really sorry Crazycatwoman, I didn't realise you'd experienced a loss. Sending you loads of baby dust for your rainbow baby xx

 

[Bridger]

Hi. I'm ttc my first rainbow baby. It will be two years in January since we started ttc. Never dreamed it would take this long, or be so hard. Fingers crossed and lots of baby dust to everyone

 

[sjavery]

It's a tough journey, af did arrive BUT just got the all clear from my ultrasound that I don't have PCOS so I'm going to relax and what will eb will be, I know preseed is a supplement but my gosh is it fun to use sorry for TMI!!

Baby dust to all!
Any updates on for anyone else? xxx

 

[GingerKitty]

Hello Sjavery and welcome!

I'm ttc my first as well, second cycle - I have long cycles though, so it seems like it's taking f-o-r-e-v-e-r!

Good luck with your journey

 

[may_lin_tewin]

hi Sjavery

I am TTC for my first baby too... I started taking Folic acid pills on my Second visit to my gynae, it was advised by her... I am diagnosed PCOS but looking positive... Baby dust for everyone yeah!!!!

 

[ButtercupDaisy]

Hi Welcome to PF.
I'm also trying to conceive my first its been nearly 2 years now. 1 chemical, 3 m/c at 6 weeks, 5 weeks and 17 weeks respectively. It's tough, but hopefully I'll get my rainbow baby soon.
Good luck to you all

xx