Another BFN & babies EVERYWHERE!! :(
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Hi Carnat
Big hugs to you. I think after all you've been through, it would be so cruel for you and your oh not to become parents soon.
What the medical staff can do these days is nothing short of a miracle so I have total faith in them that they will look after you. Have they given you an idea of when your results will be ready? xxxxxxxxxx
Big hugs to you. I think after all you've been through, it would be so cruel for you and your oh not to become parents soon.
What the medical staff can do these days is nothing short of a miracle so I have total faith in them that they will look after you. Have they given you an idea of when your results will be ready? xxxxxxxxxx
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Thanks ladies,
I feel a lot calmer about it all today actually.
Hopefully in a few weeks time I'll know what is what and then (if I need to) I can start freaking out LOL!
In the meantime we're carrying on TTC and we'll see what happens.
Dr gave me a special number to call so if I do get pregnant they'll whip me straight back in and try to keep me pregnant
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I feel a lot calmer about it all today actually.
Hopefully in a few weeks time I'll know what is what and then (if I need to) I can start freaking out LOL!
In the meantime we're carrying on TTC and we'll see what happens.
Dr gave me a special number to call so if I do get pregnant they'll whip me straight back in and try to keep me pregnant
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Carnat it sounds like uve been/going thru pretty much same as moi hun but maybe bout 5months behind.
Altho its very upsetting that ur having to go thru so many tests wen seems everyone else is gettin preg so easy, i found it (along with the scary sadness) quite reassuring they were at LAST doing something about all the losses. Having to wait til have 3/4 MCs is a killer espesh wen u know inside urself something is very wrong.
I had all those tests done in sept/oct hun. and have recently been back for more follow ups. The chromosome one came back in dec as ok. (which not sure id have been happier if theyd sed it wasnt so id atleast know wat was wrong!).
So some of them can take bout 3months to come back.
But cross fingers hun.
We both just gotta thnk they WILL find out wats wrong and they WILL be able to fix it. Or even better whilst we're waitin for the tests we get a BFP!
Hun did they say anythin to u about baby asprin?
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PS: Its ok to be sad. u wudnt be human if u werent. Cry wen u wanna cry.
I found keeping things inside much worse. xxxxxxxxxxx
Altho its very upsetting that ur having to go thru so many tests wen seems everyone else is gettin preg so easy, i found it (along with the scary sadness) quite reassuring they were at LAST doing something about all the losses. Having to wait til have 3/4 MCs is a killer espesh wen u know inside urself something is very wrong.
I had all those tests done in sept/oct hun. and have recently been back for more follow ups. The chromosome one came back in dec as ok. (which not sure id have been happier if theyd sed it wasnt so id atleast know wat was wrong!).
So some of them can take bout 3months to come back.
But cross fingers hun.
We both just gotta thnk they WILL find out wats wrong and they WILL be able to fix it. Or even better whilst we're waitin for the tests we get a BFP!
Hun did they say anythin to u about baby asprin?
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PS: Its ok to be sad. u wudnt be human if u werent. Cry wen u wanna cry.
I found keeping things inside much worse. xxxxxxxxxxx
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Hey Kezzi,
Hope you are doing OK hun?
I have my scan in a few hours - even though I have had loads before I am feeling a little nervous about this as I am scared I am going to be full of fibroids or something
Dr said some of the tests could take 6 weeks? Although one he said I could have on Friday will have to wait until early Feb as it needs to be CD2.
I asked about baby Asprin and Dr told me that if there is a blood problem it's unlikey baby Asprin alone will do anything??? He asked me not to take it at all for the time being.
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Hope you are doing OK hun?
I have my scan in a few hours - even though I have had loads before I am feeling a little nervous about this as I am scared I am going to be full of fibroids or something
Dr said some of the tests could take 6 weeks? Although one he said I could have on Friday will have to wait until early Feb as it needs to be CD2.
I asked about baby Asprin and Dr told me that if there is a blood problem it's unlikey baby Asprin alone will do anything??? He asked me not to take it at all for the time being.
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Awww shug i hope ur scan goes ok. if u need to chat us lot always here.
Even if we dont have answers were all here to listen.
BIG HUGS xxxx
They thnk my bloods too thick so keeps clotting and starving baby. So that why thy trying baby asprin with me. So maybe tht a positive thing if doc doesnt think u need it? Maybe ur blood ok?
Keep trying to think positive hun i know its so hard.
Dont be scared shug. Wateva the problem is (IF they find one) u will be ok. They have loadsa cures/medication for most everything now. My mum had fibroids AND the coil fitted..... and i popped out!
And thts a big IF anyway.
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Even if we dont have answers were all here to listen.
BIG HUGS xxxx
They thnk my bloods too thick so keeps clotting and starving baby. So that why thy trying baby asprin with me. So maybe tht a positive thing if doc doesnt think u need it? Maybe ur blood ok?
Keep trying to think positive hun i know its so hard.
Dont be scared shug. Wateva the problem is (IF they find one) u will be ok. They have loadsa cures/medication for most everything now. My mum had fibroids AND the coil fitted..... and i popped out!
And thts a big IF anyway.
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Hey Mrs,
Scan was poop! They needed me in between CD2 and CD5 (I was CD10). They scanned me anyway and think I could have polycystic ovaries !! They need to see me again when I will be on period [and heavy
] I have zero symptoms for PCOS so was quite surprised she mentioned it... I guess my next scan and blood tests will confirm it?
Dr was a complete cow as well, when I said I drink moderately she told me that I need to refrain from drinking anything if I am TTC. She made me feel like an alchie....
The only good thing is that Dr told me I am showing all the signs of ov'ing from right ovary very soon and she told me to get bd'ing!
How is you?
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Some docs are arseholes hun just ignore them. As if u need to be made to feel even worse about things. Silly cow.
Never mind shug..... every doc will tell u diff. Some say quit all together. Some say moderate is fine. And some say its only heavy drinking (more on the mans part) that will affect the quality of the eggs/spermies.
Just do wat u feel is right and ignore docs tht try to make u feel small. Ive come across alot of them. Try not let it get u down tho. Most docs are bloody awesome.
Dont panic about PCOs hun. Ive had mates that have had scans like u and theyve thawt maybe....only to have it confirmed they actually havent. AND someone i know whos been TTC with PCOs and told she may never be able to concieve......shes 23weeks pregnant at this very moment.
Things will be sorted WHATEVER happens.
Me and my OH have this thing we are doin this yr. When we are angry/sad/upset/down about various things, we make ourselves think of things we have got and smile. Even if i dont feel like smiling....just us both trying makes me end up in fits of giggles. (if u cud see my OHs geeky face ud understand) lol.
Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooo OVULATION STATIONS!!!! Get BDing like rabbits carnat!!!!! And X fingers and toes for u muchly!!!
Im waiting for my POS OPK at the mo. Hoping this is the month i FINALLY ovulate!!!!! Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
Luv yas!
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PS.....smile
Never mind shug..... every doc will tell u diff. Some say quit all together. Some say moderate is fine. And some say its only heavy drinking (more on the mans part) that will affect the quality of the eggs/spermies.
Just do wat u feel is right and ignore docs tht try to make u feel small. Ive come across alot of them. Try not let it get u down tho. Most docs are bloody awesome.
Dont panic about PCOs hun. Ive had mates that have had scans like u and theyve thawt maybe....only to have it confirmed they actually havent. AND someone i know whos been TTC with PCOs and told she may never be able to concieve......shes 23weeks pregnant at this very moment.
Things will be sorted WHATEVER happens.
Me and my OH have this thing we are doin this yr. When we are angry/sad/upset/down about various things, we make ourselves think of things we have got and smile. Even if i dont feel like smiling....just us both trying makes me end up in fits of giggles. (if u cud see my OHs geeky face ud understand) lol.
Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooo OVULATION STATIONS!!!! Get BDing like rabbits carnat!!!!! And X fingers and toes for u muchly!!!
Im waiting for my POS OPK at the mo. Hoping this is the month i FINALLY ovulate!!!!! Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
Luv yas!
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PS.....smile
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Some docs are arseholes hun just ignore them. As if u need to be made to feel even worse about things. Silly cow.
Never mind shug..... every doc will tell u diff. Some say quit all together. Some say moderate is fine. And some say its only heavy drinking (more on the mans part) that will affect the quality of the eggs/spermies.
Just do wat u feel is right and ignore docs tht try to make u feel small. Ive come across alot of them. Try not let it get u down tho. Most docs are bloody awesome.
Dont panic about PCOs hun. Ive had mates that have had scans like u and theyve thawt maybe....only to have it confirmed they actually havent. AND someone i know whos been TTC with PCOs and told she may never be able to concieve......shes 23weeks pregnant at this very moment.
Things will be sorted WHATEVER happens.
Me and my OH have this thing we are doin this yr. When we are angry/sad/upset/down about various things, we make ourselves think of things we have got and smile. Even if i dont feel like smiling....just us both trying makes me end up in fits of giggles. (if u cud see my OHs geeky face ud understand) lol.
Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooo OVULATION STATIONS!!!! Get BDing like rabbits carnat!!!!! And X fingers and toes for u muchly!!!
Im waiting for my POS OPK at the mo. Hoping this is the month i FINALLY ovulate!!!!! Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
Luv yas!
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PS.....smile
Thanks Kezzi,
I know I might sound depressed but I actually feel quite positive!!
I am glad that my miscarriages are being investigated and I'll do whatever needs to be done to find out what is going on and how I get my sticky bean
. I just like to have a moan hun !!Still not had any lines on my OPK's but we're BD'ing.
From Wednesday I'll be in my 2WW - eeeek!
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Heyyyyy shug how u doin/feeling etc etc???
Its good to moan on here sometimes!! It makes us feel better n probably saves our OHs the earache
How was friday the 13th for everyone? Any dramas?
I had my bank card fraudulently cloned......which was nice.
£0 account balance. Brilliant. Sum1 in Florida had a field day at maccyDs, clothes stores and good old walmart.
Think positive think positive think positive....smile kezzipea SMILE..... RAAAA!!!
Still havent got POS opk yet. Ffs eggs RELEASE GOD DAM UUUUU!!!!
That is all.
Mucho love and babba dust
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Its good to moan on here sometimes!! It makes us feel better n probably saves our OHs the earache
How was friday the 13th for everyone? Any dramas?
I had my bank card fraudulently cloned......which was nice.
£0 account balance. Brilliant. Sum1 in Florida had a field day at maccyDs, clothes stores and good old walmart.
Think positive think positive think positive....smile kezzipea SMILE..... RAAAA!!!
Still havent got POS opk yet. Ffs eggs RELEASE GOD DAM UUUUU!!!!
That is all.
Mucho love and babba dust
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Hi girls. Just to let girls I've been talking to in threads - I got my BFP this morning. So happy but have made a pact with myself NOT to bombard people on Facebook as I've learned you just don't know who's trying to conceive etc. Wish you loads of baby dust 
and hope you get your BFPs too Xxxxxxxxxxx
and hope you get your BFPs too Xxxxxxxxxxx
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Heyyyyy shug how u doin/feeling etc etc???
Its good to moan on here sometimes!! It makes us feel better n probably saves our OHs the earache
How was friday the 13th for everyone? Any dramas?
I had my bank card fraudulently cloned......which was nice.
£0 account balance. Brilliant. Sum1 in Florida had a field day at maccyDs, clothes stores and good old walmart.
Think positive think positive think positive....smile kezzipea SMILE..... RAAAA!!!
Still havent got POS opk yet. Ffs eggs RELEASE GOD DAM UUUUU!!!!
That is all.
Mucho love and babba dust
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Hi Kezzi sweetie,
Sorry to hear you had such a crappy Friday 13th - did the bank let you know or did you notice?
Any joy with your OPK's?
I had been using mine since last week CD10 and only got my first lines yesterday CD15... Line were OK, not as strong as I would like though.
Just been asked to be Godmother to a friend's little boy - shame I am not Catholic LOL! I am honoured to have been asked.
Love the new avatar Kezzi - you are very pretty
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!!!!!!!JAYPEA!!!!!!!Woohooooooooo hunny!!! Well done missus pregnant lady!!!!
Sooooooooooooooooooooooo muchly happy for u chick!!!
Awwwwww thats best news ive heard in a while! Brilliant. Hope everything goes super well shug...... those scary rams head ovaries with their blue scarves and jingly bells did GOOD!!!
Fab news!! 
Please keep intouch babes. Carnat....
yes we noticed wen our bank account had zero'd and our card was blocked. Lol. So a little too late but shud be able to get the moolar back soon CROSS FINGERS!!! Silly american thieves!!!
Nope
No sign of pos OPK yet. Its CD17 today...... Think im starting to realise im flogging a dead horse! Really thawt it'd be ok this month. But im still holding onto hope as my last cycle was 39days so if this one the same i shud ovulate around cd22......theres always more straws to clutch onto!! Lol.I keep gettin really faint lines but nowhere near the test line colour. Meh!
Hows u gettin on hun?
Awwww thanks shug
Thats nice thing to say..... thankyu. *Blush* Lol.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Thank you Kezzi. I'm stunned! Ha ha. the daft pictures with jingly ovaries and the ram. So funny! I will definitely keep in touch. You girls have been so lovely and it sucks we don't all get pg at the exact same time.
Can't blight about your card. Have they any more info? I can't get my head around how these things are even possible?
Big dusty love
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ps Kezzi you are really pretty I thought that too
Can't blight about your card. Have they any more info? I can't get my head around how these things are even possible?
Big dusty love
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ps Kezzi you are really pretty I thought that too
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Woohooooooooo hunny!!! Well done missus pregnant lady!!!!
Sooooooooooooooooooooooo muchly happy for u chick!!!
Awwwwww thats best news ive heard in a while! Brilliant. Hope everything goes super well shug...... those scary rams head ovaries with their blue scarves and jingly bells did GOOD!!!
Carnat....
yes we noticed wen our bank account had zero'd and our card was blocked. Lol. So a little too late but shud be able to get the moolar back soon CROSS FINGERS!!! Silly american thieves!!!
Nope
I keep gettin really faint lines but nowhere near the test line colour. Meh!
Hows u gettin on hun?
Awwww thanks shug
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What OPK's do you use?
I posted my 16th Jan pic's in OPK gallery yesterday as although there was definate line it wasn't as dark as I would have liked?
It's crazy though as on CD10 Dr told me I was gearing up to Ov so I should have had a strong + by now?
I think that was it for me though as there was a super faint line yesterday evening and nothing before bed or this morning!
I hate OPK's
OH and I have dtd for 7 days in a row and we're both thankful I am not going into 2ww so we cna have a break.
I am off out for dinner later with a few friends! So excited as I've not been out since NYE ...... I am not drinking though (may have a sneaky glass of wine with dinner!!)
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Yehhhh i know it wud be nice if we cud all fall preg at same time and go thru whole journey together but thats not the way of the world!!! Wish was that easy. Wud be lovely us lot going thru week by week at same time!!
But for now shug ur fabulous journey has moved onto next stage and we sooooooooooooo happy for u! Enjoy every min hun!!! And wen u pop we want pics!!! Good luck jaypea!!!! MUAH!
Ahhhh we'll catch up soon eh carnat? Lol.
WELL im now CD18 and nada on the old OPKS apart from faintness.
Ive kept them all and am comparing lines day by day. Yesterday morning was the darkest BUT still faint....and since then gone fainter again. HUMPF! We were BDing up until CD16 cuz i thawt maybe i hadnt ov agen this month so we kinda slowed it down and stopped. But now if that WAS my LH surge yesterday im worrying i havent BD'd enuf!!! Stress headddddd!!!
Meh!
Maybe shug u have ov in the nite? So uve caught either side of the 'dark' line. So aslong as uve been bonk bonk bonking like the clappers im sure ull be fine. Just X fingers now this is the month for uuuuuu!!!!!!!
Ahhhh enjoy tonite hun.
I havent got anything planned other than mooch about watching rubbish on telly. Got tomorrow at work then off for 5 days.
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But for now shug ur fabulous journey has moved onto next stage and we sooooooooooooo happy for u! Enjoy every min hun!!! And wen u pop we want pics!!! Good luck jaypea!!!! MUAH!
Ahhhh we'll catch up soon eh carnat? Lol.
WELL im now CD18 and nada on the old OPKS apart from faintness.
Ive kept them all and am comparing lines day by day. Yesterday morning was the darkest BUT still faint....and since then gone fainter again. HUMPF! We were BDing up until CD16 cuz i thawt maybe i hadnt ov agen this month so we kinda slowed it down and stopped. But now if that WAS my LH surge yesterday im worrying i havent BD'd enuf!!! Stress headddddd!!!
Meh!
Maybe shug u have ov in the nite? So uve caught either side of the 'dark' line. So aslong as uve been bonk bonk bonking like the clappers im sure ull be fine. Just X fingers now this is the month for uuuuuu!!!!!!!
Ahhhh enjoy tonite hun.
I havent got anything planned other than mooch about watching rubbish on telly. Got tomorrow at work then off for 5 days.
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Yehhhh i know it wud be nice if we cud all fall preg at same time and go thru whole journey together but thats not the way of the world!!! Wish was that easy. Wud be lovely us lot going thru week by week at same time!!
But for now shug ur fabulous journey has moved onto next stage and we sooooooooooooo happy for u! Enjoy every min hun!!! And wen u pop we want pics!!! Good luck jaypea!!!! MUAH!
Ahhhh we'll catch up soon eh carnat? Lol.
WELL im now CD18 and nada on the old OPKS apart from faintness.
Ive kept them all and am comparing lines day by day. Yesterday morning was the darkest BUT still faint....and since then gone fainter again. HUMPF! We were BDing up until CD16 cuz i thawt maybe i hadnt ov agen this month so we kinda slowed it down and stopped. But now if that WAS my LH surge yesterday im worrying i havent BD'd enuf!!! Stress headddddd!!!
Meh!
Maybe shug u have ov in the nite? So uve caught either side of the 'dark' line. So aslong as uve been bonk bonk bonking like the clappers im sure ull be fine. Just X fingers now this is the month for uuuuuu!!!!!!!
Ahhhh enjoy tonite hun.
I havent got anything planned other than mooch about watching rubbish on telly. Got tomorrow at work then off for 5 days.
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Do you just use the cheapie OPK's Kezzi?
Lots of people complain about not getting proper lines? I am going to use the cheapies next month and if I get a sniff of a line I'll try some digi OPK's (will stock up when my period arrives to cheer myself up LOL)
We've had sex CD10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 and I had my sort of + on OPK on CD15...
May do it tonight for good luck LOL!
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