Another BFN & babies EVERYWHERE!! :(
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RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!
Give yer 3 guesses to how im feelinggggg!!! Lol.
So sorry sweetie!
(((((big hugs)))))
I know it's no consulation but at least you can partake in some festive drinkies??
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Sorry to hear that Kezzipea!
Sending lots of hugs x
Sending lots of hugs x
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I feel the same way. I don't think I have ever wanted anything so badly 
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Hello everyone!
Hope u had a nice crimbo!
Awwww 'indreams' i know EXACTLY how u feel. With everything with my SIL gettin preg...having perfect pregnancy.... and now a perfect baby.... first christmas...everyone happy....and its so hard.
Feeling guilty for feelin anything but 100% happy for her! Its tough. BIG hugs.
And Jrswife i think we all feel the same. It feels so unfair wen people just have it so easy. Its not their fault of course but its just like....WHY NOT MEEEE!!!
And there no point anyone saying oooooo itll happen and just gotta relax cuz that DOES NOT HELP!!! lol. Relax?!?!?!?
I think about it every minute of every day. Missing my MC babies and wondering why im STILL TTC wen other people around me are popping them out left right and centre!!!
RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!
Lol.
But atleast we all understand eachother if no1 else does!!!
MAHOOSIVE cuddles.
xxxxx
PS: 5 days late for my period......kinda was hoping even tho didnt get a OPK positive.....
But me thinks AF is most defo on its way. Can feel the dreaded twinges of the little witch!!
GRRRRR!!!
Hope u had a nice crimbo!
Awwww 'indreams' i know EXACTLY how u feel. With everything with my SIL gettin preg...having perfect pregnancy.... and now a perfect baby.... first christmas...everyone happy....and its so hard.
Feeling guilty for feelin anything but 100% happy for her! Its tough. BIG hugs.
And Jrswife i think we all feel the same. It feels so unfair wen people just have it so easy. Its not their fault of course but its just like....WHY NOT MEEEE!!!
And there no point anyone saying oooooo itll happen and just gotta relax cuz that DOES NOT HELP!!! lol. Relax?!?!?!?
I think about it every minute of every day. Missing my MC babies and wondering why im STILL TTC wen other people around me are popping them out left right and centre!!!
RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!
Lol.
But atleast we all understand eachother if no1 else does!!!
MAHOOSIVE cuddles.
xxxxx
PS: 5 days late for my period......kinda was hoping even tho didnt get a OPK positive.....
But me thinks AF is most defo on its way. Can feel the dreaded twinges of the little witch!!
GRRRRR!!!
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Hi ladies. hope you've all had a lovely Christmas! In dreams I totally understand - last xmas my SIL announced her pregnancy and I was just getting over losing mine 
it does get easier though. We are going for it this month. 4th time lucky?! Baby dust and hugs xxxxxxxx
it does get easier though. We are going for it this month. 4th time lucky?! Baby dust and hugs xxxxxxxx
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Hey ladies.
Hope you all had a lovely Xmas.
Ours was lovely.
I now appear to be getting ready to ovulate a few days earlier than I should.
But I'll take it - means less waiting!
Hope you all had a lovely Xmas.
Ours was lovely.
I now appear to be getting ready to ovulate a few days earlier than I should.
But I'll take it - means less waiting!
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Gud luck yous two!!! X fingers for u both jaypea n cupcakey!
Get BDing PRONTO!!!!
Im still waiting for AF!
Had twinges for last couple of days and about 67 BFNs (lol i am overreacting but i am quite obsessed)
Soooooooo i think she just being BLOODY DIFFICULT!
Wats everyone up to New Years Eve?? xxxx
Get BDing PRONTO!!!!
Im still waiting for AF!
Had twinges for last couple of days and about 67 BFNs (lol i am overreacting but i am quite obsessed)
Soooooooo i think she just being BLOODY DIFFICULT!
Wats everyone up to New Years Eve?? xxxx
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Hey lovely ladies,
Hope you are all well.
1 week until I can test - It's stupid to even get excited as I am unlikely to be preggers this month but I feel excited!
I am thinking now to test on 3rd as I am not sure I could handle a BFN on 4th (due date of first pregnancy !!)
On the upside I met little Goerge yesterday (friend's bub, 8 days old) and I am off to meet little Robin tomorrow (my other friends baby, he was born on Crimbo Eve so will be 6 days tomorrow!)
As hard as my battle has been trying to have a viable pregnancy I still cannot think of anything more peaceful and soothing than cuddling a new born baby!
No pnas for NYE yet we may see if any friends are doing anything locally? I don't walk on NYE and I don't do public transport or taxi's so it has to be within walking distance!
What about everyone else?
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Hope you are all well.
1 week until I can test - It's stupid to even get excited as I am unlikely to be preggers this month but I feel excited!
I am thinking now to test on 3rd as I am not sure I could handle a BFN on 4th (due date of first pregnancy !!)
On the upside I met little Goerge yesterday (friend's bub, 8 days old) and I am off to meet little Robin tomorrow (my other friends baby, he was born on Crimbo Eve so will be 6 days tomorrow!)
As hard as my battle has been trying to have a viable pregnancy I still cannot think of anything more peaceful and soothing than cuddling a new born baby!
No pnas for NYE yet we may see if any friends are doing anything locally? I don't walk on NYE and I don't do public transport or taxi's so it has to be within walking distance!
What about everyone else?
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Awwwwwww hun thats really fab that u can look at ur friends babys so positively.
I think im just a mad woman who lets it get to my head!!
I felt physically sick the first time i was guna hold my new nephew.....i really thawt i was guna throw up and make an idiot out of myself infront of the inlaws! Luckily my vomit stayed putt and i just kinda blagged my way thru with a big fake smile and a few ooooo's and aaaaaar's. Ahem. Lol.
Ahhh i duno what doin for NYE either! Its stressing me out! Around where i live (altho it is quite the sh*thole) yer basically need tickets for everywhere. So i think im running out of time to choose! Really wanted to go UNlocal and off out on train somewhere but tako back on NYday early hours is likely to make moi bankrupt!
So *SIGHHHHH* i have no idea wat im doin. Just hopefully wat ever it is it includes mucho drinkand falling over!
Ohhh cross fingers for a BFP for u shug.
I give up with my stupid cycles and effing eggs. They can go screw themselves!!!
**4th January......we'll never forget.....**
hugs muchly and baby dust.
x
I think im just a mad woman who lets it get to my head!!
I felt physically sick the first time i was guna hold my new nephew.....i really thawt i was guna throw up and make an idiot out of myself infront of the inlaws! Luckily my vomit stayed putt and i just kinda blagged my way thru with a big fake smile and a few ooooo's and aaaaaar's. Ahem. Lol.
Ahhh i duno what doin for NYE either! Its stressing me out! Around where i live (altho it is quite the sh*thole) yer basically need tickets for everywhere. So i think im running out of time to choose! Really wanted to go UNlocal and off out on train somewhere but tako back on NYday early hours is likely to make moi bankrupt!
So *SIGHHHHH* i have no idea wat im doin. Just hopefully wat ever it is it includes mucho drinkand falling over!
Ohhh cross fingers for a BFP for u shug.
I give up with my stupid cycles and effing eggs. They can go screw themselves!!!
**4th January......we'll never forget.....**
hugs muchly and baby dust.
x
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I refuse point blank to pay for tickets anywhere you can go for free any other night of the year!
It's such a rip off LOL [I sound like a right miserable old cow]
I hate NYE, the expectations are just too high. I have such an emotional year I don't trust myself not too be very teary come Midnight (and I am not going to be boozing!). I think OH and I will get some Prosecco and nibbles and just chill in. We get an excelletn view of the fireworks from our balcony.
I am off today until 3rd but I'll be back online to 'clink clink' you on 4th Jan. Most likely I'll be a wreak that day and I still have 2 more 'due dates' to get through next year!
Grrrr
Much love hun and I hope you figure out your NY plans soon....
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It's such a rip off LOL [I sound like a right miserable old cow]
I hate NYE, the expectations are just too high. I have such an emotional year I don't trust myself not too be very teary come Midnight (and I am not going to be boozing!). I think OH and I will get some Prosecco and nibbles and just chill in. We get an excelletn view of the fireworks from our balcony.
I am off today until 3rd but I'll be back online to 'clink clink' you on 4th Jan. Most likely I'll be a wreak that day and I still have 2 more 'due dates' to get through next year!
Grrrr
Much love hun and I hope you figure out your NY plans soon....
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Wow sweetie - that is unfortunate timing.
I am assuming S-I-L doesn't know you're TTC?
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Ahhh i know how u feel......
At first wen u just have 1 MC theres only one date to mope about.....but after a couple of years near enuf every sodding time of the yr is a big fat poo. Either its a date you found out were preg, a date u had MC or a date u were due.
Basically its all a big bag of balls.
Its poop how doesnt seem to get easier. I think the actual only thing that cud ever make things better is a baby. I hope then the past things stop hurting then or fade.
I think its bad how the pubs charge u wen normally u go in for free but last couple yrs i have stayed in (in stubborness) so i thawt id venture out this yr and give in to the NYE daylight robbery and drunkery!!
xx
At first wen u just have 1 MC theres only one date to mope about.....but after a couple of years near enuf every sodding time of the yr is a big fat poo.
Either its a date you found out were preg, a date u had MC or a date u were due. Basically its all a big bag of balls.
Its poop how doesnt seem to get easier. I think the actual only thing that cud ever make things better is a baby. I hope then the past things stop hurting then or fade.
I think its bad how the pubs charge u wen normally u go in for free but last couple yrs i have stayed in (in stubborness) so i thawt id venture out this yr and give in to the NYE daylight robbery and drunkery!!
xx
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That's exactly it Kezzi.
For me is isn't just the fact that I would have been due on 4th Jan but I'd have been 12 weeks if 3rd pregnancy was viable and we could have told everyone at Crimbo. As you say there is always a date to remind us...
I hate living like this and being so 'date obsessed' - my baby will arrive one day and that is what I need to keep the faith in.
Sometimes I do feel quite positive but other times I just want to scream with the frustration!
Oh well, lets hope 2012 brings us all good news and happiness hey?
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For me is isn't just the fact that I would have been due on 4th Jan but I'd have been 12 weeks if 3rd pregnancy was viable and we could have told everyone at Crimbo. As you say there is always a date to remind us...
I hate living like this and being so 'date obsessed' - my baby will arrive one day and that is what I need to keep the faith in.
Sometimes I do feel quite positive but other times I just want to scream with the frustration!
Oh well, lets hope 2012 brings us all good news and happiness hey?
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