Another BFN & babies EVERYWHERE!! :(

[EssJayPea]

Aw I love that song. makes me well up hearing it xxx

how are you all this morning? Xxx

 

[Kezzipea]

Hungover
My sis-in-law has gone into labour too.

Its all go!
xxxx

Hows u??

Ps: wine is the devil

 

[EssJayPea]

Aw, hun! Get some full fat cola down you (complete hangover cure!).

That's exciting about your SIL. Hope you're okay as well, though

I'm fine, thanks - just been tidying up as we're getting work done to the house. Footie's on so I've been relegated from the living room

Wine really is the devil - good fun at the time though xxx

 

[CupcakeMummy]

Hi ladies. How are you all this afternoon?

Sorry I was a bit quiet this weekend. Was a busy one.

Found out some close friends are pregnant. So that made it a lot harder than I was hoping for.



These things are sent to try us I guess.

Hubby has been very good with me though. Put up with a full hour of sobbing from me last night. I love him. X

It's just she's 10 weeks and about that long ago we were all at a party. Her and her BF were super drunk at it and DH and I had both stopped drinking at that point.

Just doesn't seem fair sometimes.

They'll be lovely parents and deserve it. Just I deserve it too.

 

[Kezzipea]

Its so hard isnt it.
Ur stuck in a place between feeling happy for ur mates/family gettin preg and being absolutely devastated its not you.

And then feelin guilty for thinkin selfish thawts

Aw ur fella sounds fab cupcake. Mines perdy spesh too
I love him lots.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[EssJayPea]

Aw cupcake I know exactly what you mean. Kezzi you're spot on. You're 80% happy 20% jealous or the other way about at times! So bad xxx

 

[CupcakeMummy]

Thanks ladies.

Still struggling to be any % of happy at the mo.

I'll get there once the shock wears off.

It's the pregnancy that gets to me. Once I've met the baby I'm over the moon for people.

 

[EssJayPea]

Aw babes, I totally understand. Our time will come. We still have a chance to get our BFPs in time for Christmas I'd run a nice bath, get your pjs on and get a big cuddle from hubby xxxx

 

[Kezzipea]

Well girlies!!!!

My sis in law just had a 24hr labour and after a few complications (nothin dangerous) she gave birth at 6.07 this morning by c-sect.
Think she was just so knackered and she is so petite that wen time finally came to push she just cudnt get him out.

SO...... now i have a nephew.....and it feels ok!
Felt like i was guna throw up at first wen i went to hold him....but he gorgeous.


HAd no sleep ALL nite spent in waiting room.
But worth it.

Hopefully more i hold him the better ill feel. But hard not to fall inlove with him!

Seriously tho....the screams coming from that labour ward made me question our sanity!!!! Lol.
EEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeekkkkkk we all crazy wantin to be mummas!!

xxx

How is everyone today?

 

[EssJayPea]

Aw Kezzi. Congratulations on your wee nephew. Glad they're both well. I was the same when my nephew was born 5 weeks ago but I am totally smitten. We just had them over at the house and oh was holding him and feeding him. I swear my ovaries swelled! Then I caught our reflection in the window of us holding the baby and I just wish it was us

How are you feeling now hun?

Cupcake hope you're well too xxx

 

[Kezzipea]

I know its just weird cuz so many times now wen ive been preg ive imagined how it all wud be and how happy everyone wud be and gather round. Ours wud have been the first grandchild. And now its like all my visions of how it wud be is happenin to someone else. and im one of the happy relations gathering round instead, im still so so so excited for them and hes gorge.....but yer no.
Its a bizarre feeling.

And then of course the guilt for feeling anything but 100% happiness for them kicks in......


Even tho i am really over the moon for them!!!
Raaaa!!!


But thanks jaypea for making me feel im not the only one nd tht it does feel better after a while!!

ANYWAYS......
Cupcake is there anything we can do to cheer u up shug??

xxxx

 

[CupcakeMummy]

Awwww. Thanks for caring ladies.

Glad your SIL had her baby OK (but sad it wasn't one of us of course).

Now he's out it'll get easier for you babes.

I'm feeling OK today. Hubby bought me flowers and my mum bought me chocolates. All I can be is grateful for such a wonderful support network.

When my baby does come they'll have the best daddy and nana ever.

Hubby and I had a long talk yesterday. It's lovely he understands and he talks a lot of sense. I wish I could be rational like him! I know it'll happen when and how it should. I'm just do used to getting what I want and making my life work the way I want it. And this is the one thing I can't make happen with determination and hard work. It's just luck and patience!

 

[Kezzipea]

Yeah i went to see my new ickle nephew agen lastnite and i left with a smile (an actual real smile not a fake one!! shocking!)
So i think maybe it will get easier everytime. Hes so gorgeous tho!!


Awwww hun ur mum and OH sound fab. It really doesnt bear thinking about if we didnt have family like that around us does it? In that way i suppose we are super lucky.


I know what u mean hun. Our fellas (altho it does hurt them too) they kinda have this rational way of looking at everything. Whereas we just freak out and get down. Good job we got them there to level us out every now and then.
Even tho sometimes i dont listen to him!!! Lol.


It is hard. Every month seems to add on to the hurt. BFNs are big fat TURDS!!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Kezzipea]

Hey lovely ladies

I didnt want to make another thread cuz i feel ill be taking over the place with my thawts and i already feel ive found a group of girlies i can properly talk and relate to.... so abit off subject but....

Has any of u tried the temperature thing to detect ov?
Ive heard its more accurate than the OPKs. But i have NO idea wat u do or how/wat/when....

Does any of u know?? (or if anyone new knows whilst browsing my MAHOOSIVE thread of me moaning) lol.

mucho luv and babba dust xxx

 

[CupcakeMummy]

Hey sweetie.

No I've not done it at all.

There should be plenty if you google though.

I know you have to be really strict about taking it at the same time everyday and before you even sit up in bed.

 

[Kezzipea]

Ohhhhh i duno!!
Read up on it but still not sure. Done a lot of browsing on the net today for any tips.
Ud think we'd all be ovulation pros by now but theres still so much stuff out there yer come across and think...wow well i didnt know tht!!

Bet people tht just pop babies out dont know the half of it! And what goes on inside us.
I know i didnt have a bloody clue wen i was younger and so niave that it wud just happen so easily.

I think i have decided to actually do SMEP this month insted of take a month off. Slight drastic change in plan i know, but there yer go......

xxxxx
Love to all ye fellow TTC friendlings!!!!!

 

[EssJayPea]

Hey sweetie, I just noticed your question and I'd asked you if you were temping as was gonna ask how as well!

I think you have to be mega strict then before O your temp dips then rises (may be wrong) then dips again before AF - if it stays risen then you could be preggo (again, may be miles off!). I bought a BBT but yet to use it.

Might give it a whirl and see how I get on!

Hope you're all good ladies xxxxx

 

[EssJayPea]

PS - another off the topic comment but the picture of my reproductive system, in my ticker thing, looks like a ram's head. Might have to change it.... xxxxx

 

[Kezzipea]

Lol now it looks like a rams head with jingle bells on it.
Ur ovaries are very festive! Lol.

xxxxxxx

 

[Sophie Johnson]

Ha ha! Ram's head with lots of eyes!

xx