Hi girls....
Sorry to read that you're not getting postitive results yet!
We were TTC the beginning of last year. I honestly thought that I would become pregnant immediately, because I did with other 2... forgetting that I was nearly 10 yearls olders since the last one!!
Anyway, I was the same as you.... everytime thinking.... "This is it". I got a positive the second month, but had an early mc. I was so upset and just couldnt' understand why it was like this.
We decided to leave it for a while and planned a short break to the UK. I met a friend, I had a Hot Chocolate and felt awful. We dashed off to her place where I spewed my lungs out
4 Days later, I bought Clearblue test - wasn't hopeful as we hadn't really been having sex.
SHock, Horror.... Horray!! A big fat Positive
So my conclusion was that I was too stressed with my job and had placed myself under immense pressure to conceive.
My advice would be to take it slow and enjoy the "nookie". Soon you'll be to round to enjoy it and afterwards.... well.... I'll leave that for you to find out!!!!
I'm holding thumbs for all of you!!!
Stay positive and go for it - swing from the chandeliers - why not?
Emilia xx
ps. I spent a small fortune on tests - you're not alone