Annoyed and Frustrated!!!

[riotfox]

Just come back from my MW appointment and had to come in the house and have a good cry. I was maybe hoping for better news from the MW. Last MW appointment he was fully engaged and this appointment he's gone to 3/5ths. My cervix is posterior and she could admit one finger to give me the sweep. She wrote down 50% effaced. I just feel like he is never going to come out. I was also hoping for a inducement date but I just have to go for another MW appointment on Monday (10 days over) and then they will book my inducement which she said would probably be Thursday but then they may be busy then and I would have to wait even longer. Arghhh I wanted a date to look towards but I haven't got one.

Sorry for the rant ladies!! xx

 

[jodied]

Aww big I'm so sorry that you didn't get a date but maybe it's for the best - the longer that you have to wait the more chance that he will come out on his own and I wouldn't worry about not being engaged - I was never told that I was engaged and it all happened quickly so it can all change very suddenly! xx

 

[riotfox]

Thanks Jodie!! I think the frustration is just hitting me really hard at the minute!! I'll probably been fine by tonight. xx

 

[cherelle]

Awwww i really do know how you feel hun! I feel like im going for a bloody world record for longest ever pregnancy!!

Gutted you didnt get a date! At least you know it will be next week. They will have to get you in before youre 2 weeks over wont they? Thats what i was told. My little fella was fully engaged before but now only 2/5 so im not taking any notice of that.

Im just trying to organise things to do for the next few days so im not constantly waiting. We could both go before we have to be induced yet, fingers crossed! x

 

[riotfox]

Yeh fingers crossed. I feel a lot better today. Me and the OH are off to see X-Men this afternoon so that is something to look forward to. I really hope you go soon Cherelle as you are 2 days later than me. Emma pushed in front of us lol! xx

 

[cherelle]

Lol i know!! I dont mind anymore..... ive had soooo many people due around the same time or after go before me! I just hope i get a turn!

I feel like im more overdue than most people get now, i really think ill be induced now which will make me 2 weeks over - keep thinking whats wrong with my body?!! My mums going home today too so its a shame it hasnt happened while shes here again.

How u today? xx

 

[xx emma xx]

I haven't had chance to read whole thread but riotfox I was on 3/5 engaged the same night I went into labour. And she could only give me a finger tip sweep. X

 

[PinkPanther]

Awww riotfox. How frustrating for you. Can you have a 2nd sweep? Just to see if that would work?

 

[riotfox]

I have another MW appointment tomorrow where I should get my date to be induced and hopefully another sweep.

Nothing has happened since the sweep. May have lost a tiny amount of plug this morning but not entirely sure.

I'm not too bad today Cherelle. Pity your mum has to go home today. My mum is coming up on Tuesday afternoon whether I've had him or not to keep me company. It takes her 4 and a half hours to get here so I know what its like not to have your mum close by. How are you today? xx

 

[Merfairy]

Bump will be baby soon xxx

 

[xx emma xx]

I know its such a cliche but you do actually forget about all the time you have waited to meet him.
I so hope something happens for you soon.
I'm in for my 3rd night tonight, just want to be home so badly. Hopefully I will get out tomorrow xxx

 

[Vicxzy]

Awe Stacey! Thats poop! Hope the sweep tmoz works x

 

[cherelle]

I have another MW appointment tomorrow where I should get my date to be induced and hopefully another sweep.

Nothing has happened since the sweep. May have lost a tiny amount of plug this morning but not entirely sure.

I'm not too bad today Cherelle. Pity your mum has to go home today. My mum is coming up on Tuesday afternoon whether I've had him or not to keep me company. It takes her 4 and a half hours to get here so I know what its like not to have your mum close by. How are you today? xx

Hope you do get another sweep tomorrow and it works!!

Im ok. Not hoping to go naturally into labour anymore. Actually dont think my body is capable of it so theres no point in hoping anymore! Only tomorrow to go and then Tuesday ill be in for induction so im getting scared/excited now

Just gonna chill out and spent my last 1-2 baby free days sleeping and pampering myself x

 

[treeze]

i know it's sooo hard but the longer til you get induce the better chance you have of gong naturally... at my last sweep i was only 1 5th engaged, 1-2cm dilated and nothing happened from the sweep at all except a tiny bit of plug and some reddish loss.. that sweep was at 6 days overdue and then I had went into labour at 10days over (late at night) and had her just into the 11th day over.

If I have another baby (bit soon to think about that yet -lol!) but if i do I'm going to make them leave me as far over as possible. That's easier said than done I know and i think it is even more difficult when it's your first.

Shame they couldn't at least give you a date to have in mind but hopefully they will give you a date soon and then you might not even make it to that day.. it's so hard to believe that you still have time to go naturally but honestly it can still happen by itself... you hear of alot of people going the night before induction... or even getting there for induction to be told things have started to happen.

awh hope it's not long for you either way now - I'm checking here every day and thinking of you last few girlies ... can't wait to see your babies and hear your stories.. you have all been so patient x x x x

 

[riotfox]

Thanks ladies. My mum is now coming up tomorrow to stay so I will have something to do. xx

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Sorry Riotfox, I bet you're going nuts!

A girl I work with was due on 22 May and she's had nada 2 sweeps later; think today they're taking her in to be induced! Hope LO puts in an appearance soon x