Hi Budge, I must admit i dont come on here very often but when i do its usually to c how everyone is getting on and also to ask advice off of people. This is my first pregnancy and if i ask for advice i expect to be given the truth, no point in sugar coating it, which you dont, which i am very grateful for. If people dont want to be told the truth they shouldnt bloody ask so Iv voted that you r spot on mate, if your blunt and straight to the point with people then it shows how honest you are and im a bit concerned that you feel that you maybe are being too blunt. I say dont change mate, if people dont want the truth they r in the wrong place and shouldnt ask, dont change dont feel guilty after all we are all in this together arent we. Carry on your great! x