TORino
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We've just come back from SILs and she informed us that she has booked a holiday to go on 14th April.
She is going with OHs parents and her little boy for a week. Her husband is unable to go because of the date and he has to work.
Now, ordinarily I wouldn't give a rats ass that they are going away 2 weeks after my due date. I don't need (or particularly want) their assistance with my baby.
What I do have an issue with however, is that OH works with his Dad on a building site. He has been in and out of work for the last 3 years or so. OH is telling me that it is best that him and his Dad are not off work at the same time because other joiners will be sent to the site and it might cause there to be no work for him when he comes back. So he is effectively telling me that he will have to go back to work on 14th April regardless of when the baby comes because he might end up out of work if he doesn't. I am going to spend the remainder of my pregnancy worried about when this baby comes and if I am going to be left alone very soon after the birth because my in laws have decided that this is the only time they can go on holiday.
I am livid.
There is history with SIL as well which makes me think that this has not been done by accident. FFS. Some people really boil my piss.
She is going with OHs parents and her little boy for a week. Her husband is unable to go because of the date and he has to work.
Now, ordinarily I wouldn't give a rats ass that they are going away 2 weeks after my due date. I don't need (or particularly want) their assistance with my baby.
What I do have an issue with however, is that OH works with his Dad on a building site. He has been in and out of work for the last 3 years or so. OH is telling me that it is best that him and his Dad are not off work at the same time because other joiners will be sent to the site and it might cause there to be no work for him when he comes back. So he is effectively telling me that he will have to go back to work on 14th April regardless of when the baby comes because he might end up out of work if he doesn't. I am going to spend the remainder of my pregnancy worried about when this baby comes and if I am going to be left alone very soon after the birth because my in laws have decided that this is the only time they can go on holiday.
I am livid.
There is history with SIL as well which makes me think that this has not been done by accident. FFS. Some people really boil my piss.