am i nasty? or is it for the best?

[Dee1985]

im not going back to work till next may. when i go back it will be 3 full days and Dior will be going to a nursery. 8-4 three days on a trot

Dior is not confident very timmed and shy hates load noses and strangers.

im thinking about sending her to nersury now 1 day a week to get her prepaired so when i go to work it wont be so scary for her?

what do you think? im nasty while im off work she should stay with me every day or send her 1 day a week to get her ready?

be nice for Harley to have some 1 2 1 time with me too as hes never had that?

help me???? am i cruel??? il trust what you girls say

 

[sophie]

personally i dont think it would be cruel to send her, it would prob do her good to mix with other kids, when kai was 2 he went to a playgroup an was fine only for a couple of hours once a week, it made him more confident.
whatever we do we will still feel guilty i felt guilty bout kai not mixing with other children then i felt guilty for sendin him! we cant win
xx

 

[chezzabell]

totally agree it will do her no harm to send her, infact i bet it brings her on heaps

i would send sophie but cant afford too

 

[Vicki83]

I don't think it's nasty at all, it'll get her used to being away from mummy for a little while as well. Plus she'll probably make loads of new friends too!

Don;t be so hard on yourself!

 

[Kim]

Definately send her if you can afford it, it sounds like there would be loads of benefits

 

[ToriElla]

i would send eva if i was in that situation. she will probably love the routine and then it wont be a shock in may.

 

[Dee1985]

iv got a appointment to op to one tomorrow its the nursery at the hospital? does that sound ok????

iv heard its great but i was shocked they had loads of spaces and i could pick what day ect??? ild be more happy if it was a really wanted nursery with a waiting list as then ild no its good?????

im soooooo sad about sending her, but it will be best for her. (i hope)

 

[hananhmiller]

my daughter has been at nursery since she was 5 months when I first went back to work. She used to go all day 8 - 4 but now she goes 9 -12 as I am at home. She was a clingy baby but I think it helps them as she now cant wait to go.

Hannah X

 

[Jo]

I think it will be really good for her
Before Emily started school full time i took her to playgroup 3 days a week and she had school nursey in the afternnon, it got her so ready for going full time

I thinkit will be good for you and Harley to have 1 on1 time aswell

 

[Rosieroo]

Dionne I'm thinking of sending Ella for a morning or two a week when she turns one (if I can afford it). I think it will be good for her to socialise with other children and it will also keep some sense of normality for her when the new baby comes. Plus I'd like to be able to have a little bonding time with the new baby.

I don't think it's cruel

 

[Cat&Noah]

well it look quite unanimous!

 

[lauramumof2]

I can only see it as a good thing for all of you. I bet she will love it. I had started Jessica in a nursery 2 mornings a week, she has had her taster sessions this week and she really loves it.

Dont be sad, it will be a good experience for her.

 

[Dee1985]

thats good then jess enjoys it. i just feel bad that im off work so there is no reason to send her. but it is for the best

il be more upset then her though.

what do you think?

2 afternoons a week? weds and fri???

or all day friday?

 

[Hypnorm]

i think two afternoons a week would be good, sure it will help her confidence and she will probably love it.
I know how you feel, i'd feel lost leaving ewan at a nursery, but at least you get some 1-2-1 time with Harley

 

[BubbleB]

i would send her for a while

ive just started sendin bayley to playgroupn he loves it n dont wanna come home lmao

they have wayy more toys lmao

 

[Tara & Liam]

she will love it dionne once she settles. it will do Dior good to mix with children her age. have you ever taken her to parent and toddler groups?

i would personally take her to one full day a week, as she will have to get used to a full day routine. where do you work, is it in a hospital. we have got a good nursery in our hospital, it is a bit expenisve though £4.70 an hour.

good luck and Dior will love it.

 

[Dee1985]

i took her to her first toddler group this wek thats whats made me want to get her into a nursery, she was terrible some one spoke to her she shakes and crys and gets soooo upset, so im hoping a nursery will help and get her ready for me being back at work.

no i dont work for the hospital
nhs staff do get it cheaper at the nursery but its also open to other mums. its about £35 a day so im doing one day a week.

 

[Tara & Liam]

i dont think the hospital staff get it cheaper here then, as the ladies in my work pay its either £4.20 an hours or £4.70

 

[alschafr]

i have take ella to toddlers groups since she was a baby to get her used to people, she shows me to the door at nursery

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I agree with everyone else
Katrina