am i nasty? or is it for the best?

[Xena]

I agree with everyone else that it will probably build her confidence and she'll more than likely enjoy it....

but...having said that....I'm a right weirdo. I'm terrified of leaving Lydia with strangers. Ever since I heard about that 3 month old baby that was raped when the mother left her in the care of those two sick *******s, I've had this fear of leaving her with people I don't know.

I'm starting uni in a couple of weeks time and my mother is going to be looking after her.

Sorry hun not trying to scare you haha - I'm just uber paranoid. Dior will be fine

 

[lauramumof2]

thats good then jess enjoys it. i just feel bad that im off work so there is no reason to send her. but it is for the best

il be more upset then her though.

what do you think?

2 afternoons a week? weds and fri???

or all day friday?

I think 2 afternoons. To break her in. Im off work too, i just need some time when I can get some things done and I know she loves these kind of things. I can only see positive things from it. It means that on a mon & fri we have mothers and toddlers, tues, wed we have nursery and thursday is a free day for us to do what we want. So is saturday and sunday but stuart is off so we cant be as daft.

 

[K X]

Rebecca goes 7-5pm 3 days per week and has done so since she was 4 months old! She is a very sociable baby!

£470 per month tho, with no tax credit help...ouch!

Do it hun, she will love it!

 

[nicki]

I agree with everyone else. You're not being mean at all, it will do her good. Just a morning to start off with then increase it with time & see how you get on.