Alternative to Valium?

[OverTheMoon]

I am a very nervous flyer and have to go back to the UK in about a month, normally i get Diazepam (a form of valium) from the doctor but obviously cannot take that whilst pregnant, so i want to find out if there is a pregnancy-friendly alternative?
Please don't tell me to just be strong, have been like this for years, and tried that, cannot get on a plane.
Also my DH was in a horrific car accident a few days ago which thank god he walked away from (very lucky indeed, he was hit by a drunk driver who knocked his car off the highway via a lamp post and a barrier) - this has made me even more panicky and so at the moment i'm a nervous wreck!
Anyone any ideas of an alternative medicine i can take? Bachs rescue remedy does nada for me btw!

 

[trixipaws]

eep iv no idea! i took valium last time i was preg and i miscarried! definately dont take that! i'm afraid pretty much EVERYTHING in the way of drugs is banned completely for preg women. we're allowed paracetamol and thats it!

DEFINATELY ask ur doc. altho we are all lovely educated girls, still dont go off what anyone off the internet says when it comes to medication in pregnancy hope ur doc can think of somthing!