All gone horribly wrong

[Fly]

How you doin today honey ? thinkin bout you xxxx

 

[Ally1979]

Soooo sooooo tired. Slept most of the day, body shut down i guess. Horrible arguments

 

[CharlieOne]

Sweetheart

everything is ok.....Stay strong

Im here if you need someone to talk too....

 

[Fly]

Soooo sooooo tired. Slept most of the day, body shut down i guess. Horrible arguments

you got someone who can come be with you or a friend you could stay with for a while honey ? xxx

 

[Ally1979]

i dont really want to be with anyone, just want to sleep till tue morning

 

[Andrianne]

 

[Steelgoddess]

You poor love this is all you need!

has the bleeding stopped calmed down at all??

x

 

[dannii87]

Not long to go now babe, hang in there...

xxx

 

[tots hope]

How are you this morning Ally? Hope you got some sleep over the weekend - thinking of you x x x x

 

[Ally1979]

I am just having brekkie, first time i have eaten since it happened. I was bleeding lightly again last night and severe back ache and period pains but i also had a lot of wind (tmi!)
I want to get it sorted cos we have so much to loose.

 

[dannii87]

I am just having brekkie, first time i have eaten since it happened. I was bleeding lightly again last night and severe back ache and period pains but i also had a lot of wind (tmi!)
I want to get it sorted cos we have so much to loose.

It is normal to spot during pregnancy, it could all just be one horrible coincidence that you bleed the day after a trauma like that.

How are things with your OH now?

Been thinking about you a lot lately.

I was 5/6 weeks pregnant when my OH walked out on me and like you, I was traumatised and cried, screamed etc and got pain a few days later, baby is fine and SUCH a trooper, you'd be suprised how tough LOs are so young.. Hoping yours is a fighter like its Mummy xx

 

[Fly]

Thinkin bout you Ally glad to hear you have managed to eat something xxxxx

 

[Chrissy1]

for you Ally

Been thinking of you over the weekend. glad to hear you've eaten and back pain and wind and the fact that your bleeding is only light are all good signs that your LO fighting hard in there.

I'll be keeping my fx for you for tomorrow

 

[Ally1979]

thanks girls, you have kept me going.
The situation seems so odd. We have talked and shouted and screamed at each other. He is adamant that the only reason he met her was because he believed it was a kind of "honey trap" set up by me. It is the most stupid excuse i have ever heard BUT i am convinced that he thinks he is right. IF he thought that then i can see WHY he went and met her but that fact that he thinks i would put my unborn child at risk like this is beyond belief.
I love my OH so much and i cant bear the pain this is causing. I want to wake up and find it has all been a horrible dream.

I phoned the "other woman" who had the cheek to have a right go at ME for calling her. I told her that he had a pregnant GF and a 6 year old daughter and later that day i beieve he had a text from her calling him a scumbag amongst other things.

Its all such a mess, i dont know where to go next. He does not want to discuss it any more cos he can see how distressed i am getting and wants to keep me calm but on the other hand is it ever going to go away?

 

[WeArePregnant1]

Oh my gosh what an awful time for you xx I hope everything is ok for you tomorrow and your baby is fine xxxx
have some hugs xxx

 

[Chrissy1]

Hunni, it's sounds like it's a horrible situation for you but at least you can talk to your OH and at least you can attempt to sort it out.

It's hard to give you any kind of advice because I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your OH etc etc etc but I want you to know that we're all here for you and will give you all the support you need

if there's anything i can do or you just need a quiet chat PM me

c
xxx

 

[Fly]

A honeypot trap for crying out loud

Grrrrrrrrr!!

Why is it that some men will always insist on acting like total evil mofo's n then make it all your fault

If he really thought that honey would he not have asked you about it first rather than go and meet this woman ?! I am glad she has texted him and put him straight on his status as scumbag of the year!!! I am just so worried that he is playing on your vulnerability to excuse himself from outrageous behaviour - sorry if that is out of turn hon as obviously you love your OH very much

maybe after tomorrow give Relate a ring and see if they can help you and your OH sort all this out

loads of love xxxxxx

 

[dannii87]

I am just so worried that he is playing on your vulnerability to excuse himself from outrageous behaviour - sorry if that is out of turn hon as obviously you love your OH very much

I agree but didn't know how to word it. Don't you let yourself think any of this is your fault though hun, come tomorrow, if everything's ok, talk about things and really sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel.

You poor thing, I so feel for you right now.

He sounds like a coward and shouldn't treat you like this - pregnant or not - it's unfair.

If it was a honeytrap, surely he'd have stopped the conversation as soon as he "thought" that to prove you wrong?

Either way, just think of you and baby right now xxx

 

[Ally1979]

My daughter came first in her St Davids Day arts and craft competition so i am really proud of her.
OH is home from work and playing games with her so i can have some peace.
He wont be coming with me to the scan tomorrow but tbh i prefer it that way.

 

[dannii87]

My daughter came first in her St Davids Day arts and craft competition so i am really proud of her.
OH is home from work and playing games with her so i can have some peace.
He wont be coming with me to the scan tomorrow but tbh i prefer it that way.

Aww bless her! That's good that you can see baby and just spend that special moment just you and baby xx