Advice

[weeemms1]

Hiya,

Got myself an appoinment for Wednesday to get advice on what to do next...really starting to get down now especially when my uncle and his girlfriend re having a baby now if it was anyone else it wouldn't bother me but there drugs violent and don't even look after the kids they have aving a rant here just hope it doent take long to find out if there is anything wrong

 

[Olive]

Hi Emms. Hope you're ok. How long have you been ttc for?
xx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

Aw hun, i hope its good news! good luck xxx

 

[sparkle82]

Rant away Hun, we all no what you mean its sooo frustrating!! Hope all goes well on wed xx

 

[LouiseB]

It a really positive thing that you are being pro active and seeking help

Yeah, it sucks when the "rules" don't seem to apply to other people.

I have a relative who is a similar age to my husband (35) and he has done nothing since he was 18 but spent all his free time and money in the pub every day of the week and then he goes and gets a friend (also 35) pregnant because she wants a baby before she is too old.

No commitment. No nothing. Just a baby for her and him getting his rocks off.

 

[weeemms1]

Hi Emms. Hope you're ok. How long have you been ttc for?
xx

been a year and 2 months x

 

[weeemms1]

It is unfair my dh told me that my uncle said to him they want to have another baby so they can get more child benefit twat lol

 

[kizzibea]

It's horrible the way that people can just have a baby just like that when other people have to put so much work into it. We just heard about a family friend who got turned down for adoption because of something that happened years ago and was out of their control, whereas other people can have babies just like that. So annoying.

Hope that the appointment goes well for you.

 

[Olive]

It is unfair my dh told me that my uncle said to him they want to have another baby so they can get more child benefit twat lol

Ah hun that's awful. Not a nice reason to be brought in to the world!
Fx it's your turn soon.

Where abouts in Glasgow are you? I used to stay in Dennistoun.

x

 

[weeemms1]

I actually live just outside Glasgow in a place called Hamilton

 

[Olive]

Ah cool. My OH is from Stonehouse, so know Hamilton well! I even went to the palace when I was a teeny bopper! I stay near Falkirk now. xx

 

[weeemms1]

I know Stonehouse i used to live there and my gran still lives there

 

[Olive]

Oh how weird! I used to work in the cross keys/back road. do you know it?! lol.x

 

[weeemms1]

Aha i do i've veen in there a few times lol x

 

[Olive]

God lol we've prob seen each other - although was 5 or so years ago that I worked there! How old are you? Did you live near pub or otherside of Stonehouse? lol x

 

[weeemms1]

Im 20 so would have been 15 did go in alot with my gran for lunch and stuff...i lived in both ends of Stonehouse in Brankston ave and camnethan street you know any of them? x

 

[Geminiblue]

Good luck with your appointment fx xxx

 

[weeemms1]

thx x

 

[Olive]

hey hun, yeah my friend lives in brankston ave - only been there for about a year and a half though. They used to live in Angle St near your old street. lol. my oh's family live in laurie st.xx

 

[Olive]

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