Abortion

[baby43]

Today I have decided to get a termination.. I have given this a lot of thought I am 43 years old alone and I dont think i can offer a child a good stable life sytle at my age!!

The pregancy was unplanned and was a shock.. Im 7 weeks so its early days.The father does not want to be around... I dont want to bring a child into this life as a lone parent its so unfair and at my age without any support from friends or family its going to be tough.Life on benefits and at the age of 43 i dont think this be a stable way of life for baby and myself.

I know alot of woman on here are so happy about their pregancys and iam happy for them too.. and some are wishing to conceive I wish them all the luck in the world.


If i was in a loving stable realtionship then yes i would not be typing this!!!

This is not a nice post i know but im sure theres alot of ladies like me out there.

 

[DaisyPurple]

Sorry you feel like this right now can I suggest you get some councilling on the subject xx

 

[EmmaN27]

It's totally your decision but I don't think 43 is too old to have a baby especially if you are fit and well. x

 

[misscrazycooki]

Are you sure hunny, as you may regret doing this and then hate yourself for not giving yourself a chance to think it over. Your hormones are all over the place and that causes you to make silly decisions. At the end of the day its your choice x

Can I ask, do you have any children already? I know I count it as a blessing x

 

[Dragonfly Fi]

This might be and probably will be your very last chance to have a baby... Think very carefully about this xx

 

[Wobbles]

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