Following on from this: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=86958
We lost the baby that night. To say it was heart wrenching to watch your loved one struggling to hold onto a baby and to be powerless to help is an understatement.
I have never been so sad. Not for the baby-I never knew it-but for my OH. She was THE happiest I have ever seen her in the 11 1/2 weeks she was pregnant. She had a determination that I had never witnessed. She "Bloomed" in the truest sense of the word.
Reading through here has been a great help. I just wish there were more resources for Dad's when it comes to online forums etc. You ladies have it sown up!!
Anyway, just felt I had to put into words how I was feeling. Pretty low and pretty fed up, and raring to get started again.
And most importantly-give your OH a hug. He may feel like one but may be too macho to ask for it!
Nick
We lost the baby that night. To say it was heart wrenching to watch your loved one struggling to hold onto a baby and to be powerless to help is an understatement.
I have never been so sad. Not for the baby-I never knew it-but for my OH. She was THE happiest I have ever seen her in the 11 1/2 weeks she was pregnant. She had a determination that I had never witnessed. She "Bloomed" in the truest sense of the word.
Reading through here has been a great help. I just wish there were more resources for Dad's when it comes to online forums etc. You ladies have it sown up!!
Anyway, just felt I had to put into words how I was feeling. Pretty low and pretty fed up, and raring to get started again.
And most importantly-give your OH a hug. He may feel like one but may be too macho to ask for it!
Nick