Unfortunately I am going to be suffering my third miscarriage this year.
My first was in March at 7+2, third was June at 4+2 and yesterday we went for a scan at 14 weeks with this baby and no heartbeat, blood flow or movement was found.
I've already had my tablet as the first part of 'evacuating a missed miscarriage' and I go to hospital tomorrow for the pessaries and to deliver it.
To be honest I think we're still numb and can't quite believe it all, yesterday sees so surreal and today has just been moping around the house.
To make matters 'worse', my best friend is in labour with her twins and so I haven't felt I can tell her. She knows about my previous ones and I know she will be upset obviously.
I'm struggling with when to tell her? Is it really insensitive of me to tell her ASAP while she is labour or just had her twins? Should I try and wait a few days or will she feel bad I had kept it from her?
We have already told family and some friends and I am worried she will hear it from someone else so feel I should just tell her but I don't want to come across as if I'm being insensitive?
What would you do?
I'm also wondering if anyone has had a missed miscarriage at 14 weeks as well, when your bump disappeared?
I already have a sizeable bump, you can tell I am pregnant and I am trying to wear baggy clothes so strangers or people i know don't ask me about it or i don't see it in a reflection as it upsets me. With my 7 weeks one it disappeared straight away as soon as the sac came out but i don't know if it will be the same this time, some of it is just weight I've put on from eating rubbish as i had morning sickness.
Thanks X
My first was in March at 7+2, third was June at 4+2 and yesterday we went for a scan at 14 weeks with this baby and no heartbeat, blood flow or movement was found.
I've already had my tablet as the first part of 'evacuating a missed miscarriage' and I go to hospital tomorrow for the pessaries and to deliver it.
To be honest I think we're still numb and can't quite believe it all, yesterday sees so surreal and today has just been moping around the house.
To make matters 'worse', my best friend is in labour with her twins and so I haven't felt I can tell her. She knows about my previous ones and I know she will be upset obviously.
I'm struggling with when to tell her? Is it really insensitive of me to tell her ASAP while she is labour or just had her twins? Should I try and wait a few days or will she feel bad I had kept it from her?
We have already told family and some friends and I am worried she will hear it from someone else so feel I should just tell her but I don't want to come across as if I'm being insensitive?
What would you do?
I'm also wondering if anyone has had a missed miscarriage at 14 weeks as well, when your bump disappeared?
I already have a sizeable bump, you can tell I am pregnant and I am trying to wear baggy clothes so strangers or people i know don't ask me about it or i don't see it in a reflection as it upsets me. With my 7 weeks one it disappeared straight away as soon as the sac came out but i don't know if it will be the same this time, some of it is just weight I've put on from eating rubbish as i had morning sickness.
Thanks X