2nd ivf and currently in 2ww

[Ann30]

Hey everyone,
I haven't been on here in ages as u can all probably relate too it's been bloody hard and I have been trying to focus on other things (which is impossible!). Any way, I am currently 5dp5dt we had 2 embryos put back in which were on the borderline of excellent quality so all looking good. However, I am just so negative about it today convincing myself it hasn't worked its awful!!! I hate hate hate it!!! I'm so scared how ill cope if it doesn't work again
To fill u in on my story, me and my hubby are in the frustrating "unexplained " category!! I'm 32 and he's 33 and we have been trying for 3.5 years which I know isn't long compared to some but it's been so horrible
Any way, just wanted to say hi again and see if any one else is going through this?? Xxxx

 

[louielly]

Hi Ann, welcome back. Wishing you loads of luck for your BFP this time round! Your embies sound positive but can't imagine what you're feeling right now as we're only on our first cycle at the moment. We're 'unexplained' too, yes it's so frustrating isn't it! Although they think they've found signs of endo for me, so that may be contributing xx

 

[kkheartsbaby]

Hi totally understand your frustrations as we've also been ttc for 3 and half years. Lots of luck hun xx

 

[Poispinner]

Hi

Me and my OH have also been ttc for 3.5 years and now fall into the unexlained category also. Had my HSG today which came back fine and so now we have to wait for our next consultant appointment. Did you go straight into IVF or did try any other treatment first?

 

[Ann30]

Hiya I was on clomid for 9 months, that didn't do any thing but we were told after I shouldn't have gone on it any way as I'm already ovulating. We have gad every test going and nothing has been detected! Other than that we have tried every alternative therapy u can think of, reflexology, accupuncture, reiki, special diets, legs up, u name it we tried it!!
We are very lucky tho as where we live in gloucestershire we get 3 x ivf on the nhs after waiting for 3 years I no that's a lot more than a lot of people get.
How about where you all live??
Im feeling a bit better now was really down earlier feeling abit more positive now but I'm sure I'll go down again soon this part is truly the worst bit (apart from if it doesn't work of course!) xxxx

 

[Poispinner]

Fx for you. Keep positive hun.

I live in Cambridgeshire and I believe we also get 3 free attempts on the nhs. The only problem we have is my bmi is a little low and will need to be increased before we can receive any treatment (which is easier said than done).

Although it is frustrating being "unexplained" I am happy that we dont have any "problems" as such. Im a little scared of IVF but that may be because I dont fully understand the procedure. Havent really looked too much into tho as not been told yet what route we will be taking but I assume that it will be IVF