lisey
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Right, I don't know if I am being overly sensitive (feel a bit down lately so quite possible).
The thing that is bothering me is; my sister moved 3 hours away from our area with her husband, Anyways, my mum has been to visit her and she has said for me and my OH to go and stay with them for a weekend...all lovely except I have a son and she hasn't said to take him. My son has severe autism and she probably assumes I wouldn't take him as he could find it quite stressful but I feel she could at least offer and make it seem that he is welcome there, I mean I take him on holidays so she knows he is able to cope with going to new places if I prepare him for it but it has never ever been mentioned for him to come along. She has said for my brother and his children to go though? I just feel like he is not invited because of his difficulties. I am used to this, we get left out of things all the time but it doesn't make it any easier. She may be thinking it would be a nice break for me but I feel she hasn't even considered the possibility of me taking him. I can't bring this up with her as we fell out for 2 years some years ago because of some family issues, including her ignoring my son when he was little and I don't want a repeat of it. I just want to know if anyone else would feel this way? xx
The thing that is bothering me is; my sister moved 3 hours away from our area with her husband, Anyways, my mum has been to visit her and she has said for me and my OH to go and stay with them for a weekend...all lovely except I have a son and she hasn't said to take him. My son has severe autism and she probably assumes I wouldn't take him as he could find it quite stressful but I feel she could at least offer and make it seem that he is welcome there, I mean I take him on holidays so she knows he is able to cope with going to new places if I prepare him for it but it has never ever been mentioned for him to come along. She has said for my brother and his children to go though? I just feel like he is not invited because of his difficulties. I am used to this, we get left out of things all the time but it doesn't make it any easier. She may be thinking it would be a nice break for me but I feel she hasn't even considered the possibility of me taking him. I can't bring this up with her as we fell out for 2 years some years ago because of some family issues, including her ignoring my son when he was little and I don't want a repeat of it. I just want to know if anyone else would feel this way? xx
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