Worried

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I just had sex for the first time since being pregnant. It was quite painful and not really enjoyable. I did it for my OH really more than anything. I just felt sorry for him going all this time without.

I had miscarried my pregnancy before this one and that is why I have left it all this time to try anything sexual.

Do you think that I will have caused any damage seen as it hurt me? I'm such a worrier and want this baby more than anything.

 

[Tillytots]

aww hun

I think the only damage you would've done is make yourself sore from lack of action...oh and kncoked away a few cobwebs It is going to hurt if you are tense which no doubt you were

Bless you your bubs will be fine babe dont worry xx

 

[AnnaR2B]

Nooooo, u were probably just really tense..if you were worried.
Don't panic hun, i have been at it like mad as this pregnancy has made me very horny, but hubby finds it a bit wierd. Nothing wrong here, in fact i've heard orgasms are good exercise for your uterus!!!
Don't worry

 

[Manda&Thomas]

it hurts me aswell hun
i cant relax at all when we have sex so it does get sore because i tence up
cant offer no advice im affraid i just grin and bare it the best i can
i do get hubby to take it easy though and he doesnt mind at all doing that
manda xx

 

[Sherlock]

Having sex when PG is fine, unless your doctor or MW has specifically told you to avoid it for a medical reason.

Please don't panic or worry. Your LO will be fine in there. Chances are its as the others said, you were tense because you were worried, so didn't enjoy it very much.

If you try again go for a bath/shower first, have a bit of a massage to relax yourself and get your OH to pamper you a bit. All helps to relaxing and getting more in the mood. Don't forget, you don't have to have intercourse to enjoy yourselves either Other things are good fun and help with intimacy between you and your partner. And who knows, one thing leads to another and you may enjoy things more.

 

[BeckyJ]

it hurts me aswell hun
i cant relax at all when we have sex so it does get sore because i tence up
cant offer no advice im affraid i just grin and bare it the best i can
i do get hubby to take it easy though and he doesnt mind at all doing that
manda xx

im the same as manda, i think i tense up as i get worried and nervous, it wont hurt the baby at all and will prob get easier the more u do it as u will worry less

 

[debecca]

I just don't do it. DH can sort himself out

 

[GBLiz]

im the same as Anna (except my husband isnt weirded out, he just knows what a lucky guy he is haha)

i can confirm that copious amounts of sex doesnt knock the baby out of place!

I can understand how worried you must be though, i think if id had a previous miscarriage i would be scared too..but if your dr says its ok, then believe it and try to relax