For once this isnt a post about my the useless father of my child lol
I've been in my job for 7 months and this girl started about 5 months ago, at first she was lovely and we got on really well, i gave her lifts home from work and we had long chats about deep things, she was even one of the first people i told i was pregnant as she was always going on aobut not liking Phill (not sure what else to call him cos he aint OH and my babies daddy is too long ot type over and over again lol) anyway she was really nice and told me about how she'd had two miscarriages, one was at 22weeks and she's found out she cant have children cos her uterus isnt mature enough. She was really supportive of me keeping baby etc and i remember talkign to her about 3 months ago about Phill and his problems in other jobs thinking i could trust her.
Anyway, at the christmas party she had a real go at me for sleeping with phill again and then got a little drunk and locked me in a toilet (obviously i was totally sober) and started basically coming on to me, and (sorry if TMI) was asking if she could lick his cum outta me
then she kept putting her hands in between my legs when we were sat at the table, needless to say it made me very uncomfortable.
THEN when they were doing inventory at work she decided to tell phill i was using him for sex and intend to run off with my ex and the baby after its born and not let him see it, this really upset him and he actually cried but luckily when he'd had a chance to think realised she was lying
so then started my complete weariness of her
THEN she and another girl told him i'd been showing everyone a video i have of him dancing around in shorts, luckily again he knew they were lying as they said he was dancing in pants when hes very obviously dancing in shorts, plus i havnt shown anyone the video
NOW shes told him i told her all about his other jobs and why he lost them, and started saying shes telling everyine about what you took from your other jobs and what you took from here, now loads of people in work know he got sackd from two other jobs, including management, and i never told her he's been stealing, i obviouslt dont condone him doing it but if i was going ot try and get him sacked i'd have done it in the month when he left me for being pregnant, not now! Plus (rather selfishly) i need him to have a job so he can at least provide for his child a little. He's now totally shitting himself, and shes leaving in a week so i woudlnt put it past her to go out with a bang, but she has a very obvious crush on him so i dont think she would tell, shes trying everything to make sure we arnt together, and cos im so stubborn im determined she wont win, even though hes a total twat lol
I'm jsut so angry that shes making out that i bitch about him constantly in work and that i tell everyone things like that, again he's gotton wise to her lies and asked aobut what id said so i told him the truth.
I never hide what i've said about him as i know most people in work will try nad stir and i dont say anything to them i woudlnt say to his face anyway.
She's been sending him filthy messages for months and i've had enough, i've tried my best to keep a dignified silence in work but it's very hard when every one is constantly sayinh how much they dislike her, even management want her gone.
I dont understand why people do this or what i've done to her that she wants to try and mess with what is already a pretty fucked up relationship.
I was really upset about it on monday, i know its prob jsut hormones but it feels like everywhere i go theres girls who do this and i cant understand why they do
I've been in my job for 7 months and this girl started about 5 months ago, at first she was lovely and we got on really well, i gave her lifts home from work and we had long chats about deep things, she was even one of the first people i told i was pregnant as she was always going on aobut not liking Phill (not sure what else to call him cos he aint OH and my babies daddy is too long ot type over and over again lol) anyway she was really nice and told me about how she'd had two miscarriages, one was at 22weeks and she's found out she cant have children cos her uterus isnt mature enough. She was really supportive of me keeping baby etc and i remember talkign to her about 3 months ago about Phill and his problems in other jobs thinking i could trust her.
Anyway, at the christmas party she had a real go at me for sleeping with phill again and then got a little drunk and locked me in a toilet (obviously i was totally sober) and started basically coming on to me, and (sorry if TMI) was asking if she could lick his cum outta me
then she kept putting her hands in between my legs when we were sat at the table, needless to say it made me very uncomfortable.THEN when they were doing inventory at work she decided to tell phill i was using him for sex and intend to run off with my ex and the baby after its born and not let him see it, this really upset him and he actually cried but luckily when he'd had a chance to think realised she was lying
so then started my complete weariness of her
THEN she and another girl told him i'd been showing everyone a video i have of him dancing around in shorts, luckily again he knew they were lying as they said he was dancing in pants when hes very obviously dancing in shorts, plus i havnt shown anyone the video
NOW shes told him i told her all about his other jobs and why he lost them, and started saying shes telling everyine about what you took from your other jobs and what you took from here, now loads of people in work know he got sackd from two other jobs, including management, and i never told her he's been stealing, i obviouslt dont condone him doing it but if i was going ot try and get him sacked i'd have done it in the month when he left me for being pregnant, not now! Plus (rather selfishly) i need him to have a job so he can at least provide for his child a little. He's now totally shitting himself, and shes leaving in a week so i woudlnt put it past her to go out with a bang, but she has a very obvious crush on him so i dont think she would tell, shes trying everything to make sure we arnt together, and cos im so stubborn im determined she wont win, even though hes a total twat lol
I'm jsut so angry that shes making out that i bitch about him constantly in work and that i tell everyone things like that, again he's gotton wise to her lies and asked aobut what id said so i told him the truth.
I never hide what i've said about him as i know most people in work will try nad stir and i dont say anything to them i woudlnt say to his face anyway.
She's been sending him filthy messages for months and i've had enough, i've tried my best to keep a dignified silence in work but it's very hard when every one is constantly sayinh how much they dislike her, even management want her gone.
I dont understand why people do this or what i've done to her that she wants to try and mess with what is already a pretty fucked up relationship.
I was really upset about it on monday, i know its prob jsut hormones but it feels like everywhere i go theres girls who do this and i cant understand why they do
