Wondering if you Girl's could help me!

EmmaLR

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Hello! Hope your all well?

Im just over 12 weeks now, will officially pass over to this forum next week :D. Just have a couple of questions as im due for my first scan next week and im scared of the outcome!

I bled quite early on, about 7 weeks after my and my partner had sex, it was kind of like a smal period, but i didn't want to get it checked out as i was scared about what i would have been told.

Since then i have had no bleeding at all but i havn't really had many symptoms:

Would you say that any of you had these below symptoms around 12 weeks


Really Hot and Sweaty in the middle of the night?


Tummy pains ( come and go and not that strong ) These have gone now but had them last week?


Bad Dreams


Really bad headaches now and again ( i mean Throbbing ) :wall:



What syptoms did you girls experience?


I still don't have a bump either, my belly does def feel harder though and some people say you should be able to feel butterflies or something.

I havn't felt anything :(


Im Scared :pray:
 
Some people do experiance bleeding after sex but as long as it wasnt lots and fresh red blood things should be ok.

I had tummy pains, still get them now, had headaches if i didnt eat properly and having some of the most bizarre dreams ever.

I didnt get a bump till these last few weeks and i didnt feel any butterflies until i was about 16/17 weeks.

If you have been so worried maybe you should have called your midwife to get you in for a reassurance scan, bit late now as you have your 12 week scan coming up.

Good luck.
 
hi,

bleedin after sex can happpen when your pregnant i bled a few times in my second pregnancy after sex, it was fresh red blood but i didnt have any pain or clots, its more when you have all 3 together that you should definately worry.

alot of people dont show til the 2nd tri, and it is pretty unusual for anyone to feel baby move as early as you were expecting, that also comes in the 2nd tri.

the weird dreams and really hot uncomfortable temps thru the night are all present in my pregnancy.

try not to worry just wait for your scan fingers crossed everything goes well.
 
Hi,

You will be just fine for your scan. Headaches, tummy aches (like cramping/stretching pains) and absolute nightmares of dreams were all so common and regular with me. As for the bump 12 weeks you might feel bloated/tight in your normal jeans etc but nothing will really show yet - I know I keep saying I've got a huge bump but for me that's caused by being on medication up till week 10 of my pregnancy which has caused severe bloating almost like a balloon and the water retention is massive - I'm sure as the side effects from the medication start to vanish the bump will be coming up anyway so it's 6 of one and half a dozen of the other with me. Really, a bleed after early intercourse is totally natural. Once pregnant a mucus plug forms and closes of the cervix completely - nothing will get in or out of there till it's time. A man's anatomy can't reach up that far and although a bleed might occur it's nothing to do with baby - sex can often be discouraged in the early days as any tickling of the cervix through intercourse or explosive orgasms that cause the cervix to, well, shudder in delight shall we say can lead to early m/c. The fact that the bleed was small means nothing, your tummy is hard and that's great. Relax, look forward to the scan and all will be well, :hug: xx
 
Awww thank you for your replies! :hug: Im sure everything wil be ok but you ust can't help to worry! I really want to see my little bean in there!

Can you take medication through pregnancy? I was wondering if there was something you could take for headaches!
 
I have had lots of those throbbing headaches the last week. They are horrible but usually go with a paracetemol. Also, I got my eyes checked out (ask your GP for a form to get a free eye test) and I need my glasses changed. :shock: Maybe that caused the headaches?

I have also had tightening in the tummy and really bizarre (sometimes upsetting) dreams.

Hang in there. Not long till your scan. I'm sure you will feel a lot better then.

:hug: See you soon in 2nd Tri
Sabrina
 
Hi

Everything you have said is normal hun. Most women as others have said wont feel any movement till 16-22 weeks , with my first i didnt feel it till 19 weeks, this time 13 weeks. See you in a week :D
Katrina
 

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