Why my due date

Discussion in 'Coping with Miscarriage & Loss' started by lauramumof2, Jan 23, 2008.

  1. lauramumof2

    lauramumof2 Well-Known Member

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    I met another pregnant friend today. This girl didnt know I was pg.
    She was showing me her scan pictures and she is due on what would have been my due date :(
    I known its daft to say whay that date but I was just starting to feel a bit better and now im back feeling teary again.
    Bugger :(
     
  2. NickyB

    NickyB Well-Known Member

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    Poor you :(

    I know exactly how you must've felt. My Dad put my aunt on the phone to me a few weeks ago. I haven't spoken to her in about a year. She asked me if I was big... I didn't know what to say, I don't mind talking about it but it was so sudden. I said no, she said 'oh, you're quite small then?' i wibbled something and threw the phone at my dad and boooed :(

    Have a hug, 'cause nothing I'll say will make it better! :hug:
     
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  4. lauramumof2

    lauramumof2 Well-Known Member

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    thanks, i know what you mean about not knowing what to say. I can easily phone people up and talk about it then but if i bump into someone then its the surprise that hits me and then I start to feel teary.
     
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    I know exactly what you mean hun. Someone in my Tai Chi group is pregnant and due the week before I was, she doesn't know I was pregnant at all but it's very hard when I see her and I feel bad that it is but I just think it's natural to suddenly be reminded and upset :(

    :hug: :hug:
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    Trudyscrumptious76 Well-Known Member

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    :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

    sending hugs thinking of you and here if you need me xxxxx
     
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    abcd1234 Well-Known Member

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    :hug: My midwife has given me the same due date as my friend had, she lost at around 7 weeks and i dont think she's over it yet) but i've told OH i dont want that one, it's hers and i want to stick to the one my LMP gives me, it's hard enough every time a see her and i know shes happy for me but i feel like i'm rubbing it in :wall:
    I cant imagine how it must feel
     

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