Why am I feeling like this?

[pinkymum]

I need to get a grip and stop worrying! I'm more worried about something going wrong now than I was beore 12 weeks!
Theres no real reason for this worry, everything seems fine, everything was fine at my scan. Had another MC dream last night again, so even if I'm not worrying all day long I must be on some level. Anyone else the same or thought the same? Feel so silly. Someone sort me out please!

 

[Mummy2Adam]

hope your ok Helen, im the same, i havnt had any dreams but im constantly worrying!
I think the 12 week scan makes you less worried but a week or so later the worrying returns x x


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[Miss]

Pinky your body is going thru the mill at the moment and hormones do strange things to us hun.

Not sure if I can "sort you out" as such but I once read that sleep is the time when we work thru our worries - your current worry is all baby related which is prob why you keep having these dreams. They don't mean anything.....and they are not real.

You need to relax hun....take a bath....do you read? If so go find yourself a good book you can get into.

 

[pinkymum]

Oh its horrible Kerry! I thought it was just me lol. Were you like this with Adam? The whole Lily Allen thing has got me thinking more as well! Don't even want to imagine how awful that would be. At 7 weeks I had a little talk with myself and told myself that if something is going to happen it will and theres not much I can do, think I need to do that again!!!! It defo helped then.

 

[pinkymum]

Pinky your body is going thru the mill at the moment and hormones do strange things to us hun.

Not sure if I can "sort you out" as such but I once read that sleep is the time when we work thru our worries - your current worry is all baby related which is prob why you keep having these dreams. They don't mean anything.....and they are not real.

You need to relax hun....take a bath....do you read? If so go find yourself a good book you can get into.

Thank you miss! I know mc dreams are common, and thankfully theyre not real its horrible waking up from them though. Yeah i do read, maybe I need to read something non-baby related lol

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

I worried every week up to 12 weeks then worried every week after 24 weeks just in case he was premature!! Pregnancys such a worry! Your not alone in thinking like this x x

 

[Miss]

You are welcome hun.

Tbh I know what it's like getting an idea stuck in your head and not being able to let go of it! When I was pregnant with my son I constantly and I mean constantly worried! I thought it would stop after the scan but it did not. I lost count of the track of times I torchered myself with what if's and but's and then cried myself to sleep! I did not enjoy that pregnancy at all and I am refusing the do it again this time.

Thing is...it's no good for the baby and it's no good for you and you are the two people that matter the most as this time.

A non baby related book sounds good...trust me you will be consumed by the baby very very soon so take this time the chill while you can x

 

[amandapanda]

I worry alot too.....I think this forum is excellent for support, but there is also the other side where you hear about so many people's tragic losses that it makes you realise that in no point in your pregnancy are you 'home free' - I know someone who had a still birth at 39 weeks FFS!! The Lily Allen thing has REALLY upset me too - 6 months pregnant and to lose your baby, it breaks my heart. There is so much tragedy about and we are full of hormones and anxiety anyway......but as a friend said, you only hear about the bad stuff.....think about all the millions of people who have healthy pregnancies and beautiful babies and just focus on that. The fact is now you are past 12 weeks your chances of losing the baby are very small, so focus on the positives (think I need to take my own advice, lol) xx

 

[pinkymum]

Thank you girls!
I feel like I'm getting a cold too so probably just feeling more sorry for myself than usual haha!

x x x x

 

[Bunny82]

I feel exactly the same im so worried about everything - I know how you feel!!

xXx

 

[Rósa]

I'm permanently petrified ! hugs to you Pinky x

 

[pinkymum]

Thanks Rosa and bunny! Feel less worried today. Full of the cold though so just resting!