Who wants to try and be calm to help those beans implant!!!! LOL???

[Lara_M]

Lara, that's great pma. Really hope it's your month! xxx

Good luck lovelies xxx

Thanks hun, I kind of doubt this will be my month, its been a very very long cycle already which does not bode well, but we've tried so fingers crossed.

The right headspace I think must be so key to all of this

xx

 

[Lara_M]

I was thinking about you this morning and wondering how u were getting on I think u were the first person I told about my bfp (remember I peed before the stick was at the ready so dipped it in the toilet ) haha. Wishing you the best of luck and baby dust xxxx

ha ha ha - hello you!!

Yes! I remeber you telling me and I was like "YOU DID WHAT!!!" he he he!

What a beautiful scan pic you have - thats awesome.

How are you feeling? Has it been an easy pregnancy so far? x

 

[Lara_M]

another tip she gave me, keep my system warm starting with my feet (which apparnetly link up to either heating or freezing my uterus depending on if I wear my socks or not!!)

What else can we do to chill? x

Clearly not literally!!

I'll try to chill with you, now 2dpo I think.

How did you find your acupuncturist?

You know I am still in two minds about the acupuncture, I have heard rave results, but as yet it hasn't shortened my cycle although I have only had 4 sessions so its really too soon to expect results.

It does seem to be warming me up though and I am not suffering so much with cold hands and feet so from a circulation aspect it seems to be doing something with is a key thing for me and my fertility issues x

So how many DPO now? 4?

Do you ever feel really crappy around ovulation? I am only a couple of days past ov at the moment and I always feel really tired x x x

 

[Lara_M]

I would like to chill with you girls too please, im on 7dpo and really tring not to think about it too much this month. Has worked so far!!

Michelle. x

How you getting on michelle? Are you chilled? LOL

Are you testing before AF due?

x

 

[Lara_M]

Hello all girls wanting to be chilled!

And hey CARNAT!! Wll what a differnce it makes to feel calm. I absolutely hated obsessing over the two week wait. I can't promise to remain flawless through this but i can but try. What other tips did you have for staying calm through that time?

I have had some acupuncture for my stress levels and really focussed on my general health rather than just the TTC.

I am a little stressed with work but can't wait for my holiday in 2 weeks time x x

 

[CARNAT22]

Hello all girls wanting to be chilled!

And hey CARNAT!! Wll what a differnce it makes to feel calm. I absolutely hated obsessing over the two week wait. I can't promise to remain flawless through this but i can but try. What other tips did you have for staying calm through that time?

I have had some acupuncture for my stress levels and really focussed on my general health rather than just the TTC.

I am a little stressed with work but can't wait for my holiday in 2 weeks time x x

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No real tips hun, just take each day at a time and no early testing!! Early testing always sent me into a spin...

xxxxxxx

 

[kra0]

I was thinking about you this morning and wondering how u were getting on I think u were the first person I told about my bfp (remember I peed before the stick was at the ready so dipped it in the toilet ) haha. Wishing you the best of luck and baby dust xxxx

ha ha ha - hello you!!

Yes! I remeber you telling me and I was like "YOU DID WHAT!!!" he he he!

What a beautiful scan pic you have - thats awesome.

How are you feeling? Has it been an easy pregnancy so far? x

Hehe and I still didn't believe it even after that thank u, that's from my 12 week scan. Had my 20 week one today and found out baby is (possibly) a girl. Still getting sick at the min but its something I'm willing to put up with. Not been the easiest pregnancies in terms of sickness but all good apart from that! Xxxx

 

[hayes]

Im feeling pretty chilled thanks, i dont test early anymore been too disappointed in the past so im waiting till nxt sat(12th)before i test altho af is due on mon. Fx being chilled about it will work for us all.

Michelle. x

 

[Emma.b]

I'm now offically in my tww. Feeling rather chilled and positive at the min. Done as much as i could this cycle. So we'll see what happens. Not testing until af is late, not gonna symptom spot.

Just gonna take this cycle as it comes, got my clearblue monitor to use next month if i dont get my bfp!!

 

[peach]

ooo good luck emma.b xx

 

[Lara_M]

hey guys, good luck with staying chilled Emma, I have really liked the way the 2ww has gone quicker for me this time by forgetting about it.
Now that I am 8/9 dpo its playing on my mind a bit more, but only because I have started to get sore nipples so I have actually had something to remind me rather than looking for it.
Its also quite a good feeling to just go "OK so if it doesn't happen this month then its not the end of the world" Since my miscarriage in November every cycle so far has felt so urgent and so stressful, this time I think I have finally taken a deeper breath and calmed down.

So how many dpo is everyone now? Any symptoms that are not crazy ones that we just imagine? lolol x x

 

[Emma.b]

Aww thanks girls but as it tturns out I'm not done ovulating yet! lol had a few aches today, did a cheapie and got a line but not strong. so figured I'd double check with a clearblue and got another smilie face! Fingers crossed tomorrow I'll be in my tww with you girls. In the mean time I'm going to get a cheeky bd in! Lol x x x

 

[PinkDiamond]

I agree with the relaxing and being calm way. Ive been stressing and worrying also and its not been helping my body, PCSO or me trying to convince. So im looking to try this way from now on. My last positive OPK was 7th March 2012. No period since 22nd February, Im trying to stay calm and relaxed about it.

Good luck Everyone.

 

[lizsamuel80]

I'm anything but calm. I'm an emotional wreck today. Every little thing sets me off and I'm scared to go get my waxing done today because my tears and just under the surface and I always tear up a little. Today I think it's going to be full water works.

Oh well at least my eyebrows will look lovely and my legs smooth.

REMIND me why do we do that to ourselves??????????

 

[Lara_M]

Pink diamond, you have Pcos? It's such a pain.
Are you receiving any treatment for ovulation? X

 

[PinkDiamond]

Pink diamond, you have Pcos? It's such a pain.
Are you receiving any treatment for ovulation? X

Yes I have PCSO it is a pain. Im just finding it so difficult to get pregnant with it. First I was not having period for 7 months, then I went on the contraceptive pill for 18 months I then came off and had 3 periods i thought Yes! This pill has helped me. And I spoke to soon My periods have stopped again. I've missed 3. So Ive been thinking about Staying calm and relaxed.

 

[Lara_M]

Have you discussed metformin with your doc? its starting to shorten my cycle. x

 

[PinkDiamond]

Have you discussed metformin with your doc? its starting to shorten my cycle. x

I haven't yet no. What is this? Ive seen a few fertility drugs mentioned here on the forum and don't have a clue to be honest...

 

[PyscoFalcon]

PinkDiamond deffinatly go to your doc and say look atm I don't care about getting preggers (big lie I know) I just want my PCOS sorted. They should then get you tested for insulin resistance and if results posative - put you on Metforming.


I was having 1 to 5 periods a year. Last August I was put on Metformin after more blood tests shows PCOS had given me insulin resistance. I've had back to back periods since December!
Not only that but lost 4 stone in weight, not falling asleep all time, not as lethargic and only passed out once when I missed my tablets (before I would black out every time I walked the dog)

So deffinatly get it sorted. Once you have your PCOS under control THEN you can really try TTC knowing you've done your best

 

[Durhamchance]

Staying calm has gone out of the window this morning! I'm so stressed with work!! I swear customers are winding me up on purpose. I keep dreaming of maternity leave lol