Who wants to try and be calm to help those beans implant!!!! LOL???

[Lara_M]

A couple of months ago a very wise lady on this forum (CARNAT) decided to be cool, calm and collected. And guess what, she got her BFP!!

Well this month, that is pretty much my only rule. I am staying calm. I am refusing to send any crazy bonkers signals around my system which I know only muck up my hormone levels and mess around with the balance needed to help that bean implant!

So today I have ovulated. Its taken until CD43 this cycle. Ughhhhh. So as you can imagine, with these long cycles, its pretty easy to feel stressed because its a long time for me until the next egg comes around.

BUT, this cycle I have really and truthfully managed to forget about TTC (well maybe forget at least 50% of the time ;o)

So I am feeling a lot calmer and more peaceful. I just hope I can keep this up for the next two weeks.

This is my first 2ww on metformin and my first having acupuncture.

I am making a promise not to test until AF is late and not to obsess over symptoms to the point that it makes me feel anxious.

Does anyone else want to try and stay balanced and calm with me?

x x x

 

[netty]

Meeeeeee I am not even using opks this month x

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[peach]

me too I am just going to try and chill and forget about it for next cycle xx

 

[liz_milne]

Awww good luck hun x

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[Lara_M]

OK, lets do this! And rather than being obsessive comulsives lets try and think about things that will relax and balance us! lol
My acupuncturist keeps telling me that the best thing i can do for this process is stay really calm.
So, tonight I am going to read my book, with a hot water bottle under my feet, because thats another tip she gave me, keep my system warm starting with my feet (which apparnetly link up to either heating or freezing my uterus depending on if I wear my socks or not!!)

What else can we do to chill? x

 

[Lara_M]

Peach - you are about to test no???? x

 

[Lara_M]

Meeeeeee I am not even using opks this month x

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Wow Lynette, well dont forget to BD though! ha ha x x x

 

[EssJayPea]

Lara, that's great pma. Really hope it's your month! xxx

Good luck lovelies xxx

 

[peach]

Peach - you are about to test no???? x

af is due wed but hubby is home fri pm so trying to hold out till sat fmu so he can be here as if af doesnt show it will be the first time she hasnt so fingers crossed lol

 

[flisstebbs]

another tip she gave me, keep my system warm starting with my feet (which apparnetly link up to either heating or freezing my uterus depending on if I wear my socks or not!!)

What else can we do to chill? x

Clearly not literally!!

I'll try to chill with you, now 2dpo I think.

How did you find your acupuncturist?

 

[Emma.b]

i think i'm gonna join in on this, i havent actually ov'd yet, so no were near my tww, but when the time comes i plan on not symptom spotting or testing until af is late.

Unfortunately i work late evening/nights so no chilling out on the sofa with my feet up for me!

 

[hayes]

I would like to chill with you girls too please, im on 7dpo and really tring not to think about it too much this month. Has worked so far!!

Michelle. x

 

[peach]

well the staying calm didnt work ha ha

will try next month lol

 

[CARNAT22]

I am glad you remembered my thread Lara...

After several 2ww with tears, arguments with OH and me basically being a wreck I decided to have a chilled 2ww....

I also decided to carry on the chilled vibes and I made it to Tri 2 yesterday

I hope it works for you all ladies

xxxxxxxx

 

[liz_milne]

I'm chilled too even though I'm now 2 days late but think af is just toying with me lol. Surprisingly laid back actually previous monthe is be poas mad but had a bfn this morning and accepted in no problem!

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[kra0]

I was thinking about you this morning and wondering how u were getting on I think u were the first person I told about my bfp (remember I peed before the stick was at the ready so dipped it in the toilet ) haha. Wishing you the best of luck and baby dust xxxx

 

[Anne1983]

Think i'll have a piece of this too

 

[peach]

I was thinking about you this morning and wondering how u were getting on I think u were the first person I told about my bfp (remember I peed before the stick was at the ready so dipped it in the toilet ) haha. Wishing you the best of luck and baby dust xxxx

lol did it work? x

 

[kra0]

Yes! Lol and it was actually quite a strong line checked with digi though to make sure and got 2-3 xxxx

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[lizsamuel80]

I'm trying to chill. But I'm more nervous about getting to Tri 2.