When do I try again?

[Natalilly1288]

Thank you ladies Ive decided to just try to relax and not take any precautions but not try to tell my body I'm not "trying " lol I'm just dreading something else bad happening I'm going to be so scared if I do get my bfp again! And I'm sorry for all you lovely ladies losses that were a lot later than mine I can't begin to imagine how that must have felt its bad enough when it's really early the dreams you make but to be far along thinking you will be ok I can't imagine I wish you all healthy happy pregnancies I love thus site it's So nice to speak to other ppl that no how you feel )) xxxxx

 

[tinselcat]

Hey hun

Sounds like you've made your decision now but just to echo that your colleague was both out of line AND wrong.

After my mc the hospital people recommended I wait til the next cycle before trying again, when I asked why, she just said because it helped with dating the pregnancy & knowing that a positive HPT was due to a new pregnancy, not the old one.

As it was I just used OPKs to determine when all the hcg was out of my system.

There have been a number of 'success' stories on here of people who've sadly lost their baby and then go on to have a healthy 9 month pregnancy immediately.

So do exactly what you want

 

[Natalilly1288]

Thanks for that hunny my doc never told me to wait at all I think sometimes people don't want to see you happy! But I've come to the conclusion it's nothing to do with her anyway I won't be telling her anything again! Xxxx

 

[T84]

Yyyeeeeuuuccchhh what a horrible thing to say. For me, I didn't want to waste a month where I was apparently more fertile and wanted to try straight away. Also felt it was something I needed to do to pick myself up again and feel positive. Don't listen to negative remarks and do what your body tells you. I think your relaxed approach and bding every second day is a great way to edge you in again. Fx for you x x

 

[Natalilly1288]

Thank you Hun I can't waste another month! I feel the same it does help me to try and stay positive if I no were trying again! Fx this month is our month!! Xxxx

 

[Mummyof3tobe]

Thank you Hun I can't waste another month! I feel the same it does help me to try and stay positive if I no were trying again! Fx this month is our month!! Xxxx

Fingers crossed for us all!!! Xx