What to do if AF doesn't come?

[Kitana]

Hi Pinkz, if you're not sure when you've ovulated, you might not even have ovulated at all. I once was 4 weeks late with my period and it was probably due to an anovulatory cycle.
Weight loss can affect you cycle but like the others said, only if it's drastic. I had a few problems due to having anorexic tendencies when I was young, my cycles were all over the place, even just staying away. But I would only eat like 200 calories a day. Very very bad for your body. But losing weight when overweight can really boost you fertility.

 

[Pinkz]

Also some women take longer to get a BFP even though pregnant.

Well i hope so more than anything. Just feel so up in the air right now

 

[Maximus17]

My af is also 2 days late. All tests are bfn. I hope this is not a start of early menapouse for me. I am 40 and my mum went on early menapouse

 

[Pinkz]

My af is also 2 days late. All tests are bfn. I hope this is not a start of early menapouse for me. I am 40 and my mum went on early menapouse

2 days isnt a lot though. Could easily still be coming! Good luck

 

[Maximus17]

My period just started in full force thank god! It’s a relief to be honest

 

[Pinkz]

My period just started in full force thank god! It’s a relief to be honest

At least you know where you are with it now!

Still nothing here. Bfn again on frer. Woke up feeling soooo sick

 

[SugaryIris]

I’ve had cycles up to 67 days long.

One of these was because I actually had a chemical but it took 3 weeks for my period to come after my tests started being negative.

If you’re sure when you ovulated then I’d go to the doctors to investigate. Hope you get answers soon xx

 

[Maximus17]

At least you know where you are with it now!

Still nothing here. Bfp again on frer. Woke up feeling soooo sick

I hope you either get a bfn or your period starts. I can imagine how frustrating it must be. Let us know ?

 

[Maximus17]

I meant bfp

 

[Mandy119]

Im in the same boat. 6 days late now and still no AF and BFNs. Ive had one FRER show me a line now but im positive that its just a really dark evap line as its been 2 days since I took the test and I couldnt see it within the 10 mins. Even though Ive never seen evap lines get darker over time. Just so frustrating!

 

[Pinkz]

Well still getting bfn at 8 days late. Ive started spotting. I was hoping today to wake up in a pool of AF if im honest... but no still spotting. Its barely pink/brown. The type where you really have to check the paper.

Im going to a friend's to see her new baby today so can only imagine i will have some torrential haemorrhage as soon as my backside touches her cream settee.

In just so fed up. Like ive said ive always been absolutely spot on, so to spend however many months of this year focussing on getting my weight down for IVF to then be like oh my perfect cycle is no more... it just feels like a lost cause. I wish i could just totally forget about having a baby and move on with my life

 

[Pinkz]

Here in full agonizing force now. God help me with my next cycle...

 

[Mandy119]

Here in full agonizing force now. God help me with my next cycle...

At least you know now. Wish I could give you a big hug xx

 

[SockVortex]

Here in full agonizing force now. God help me with my next cycle...

Sorry Pinkz I hope it settles down soon.

 

[Pinkz]

To be honest i AM relieved. The negative tests had me worried that is i was pregnant it wasnt viable again and i was just so scared it was ectopic.

Hopefully it will be my turn soon

 

[Mandy119]

To be honest i AM relieved. The negative tests had me worried that is i was pregnant it wasnt viable again and i was just so scared it was ectopic.

Hopefully it will be my turn soon

Im thinking just that at the moment. Im 8 days late now and still getting stark white BFNs. Im so anxious that something is wrong or it could be ectopic.
Im crossing my fingers for your next cycle xx

 

[Pinkz]

Im thinking just that at the moment. Im 8 days late now and still getting stark white BFNs. Im so anxious that something is wrong or it could be ectopic.
Im crossing my fingers for your next cycle xx

Good luck in knowing either way. Its not knowing thats the killer

 

[chattychar1990]

Im thinking just that at the moment. Im 8 days late now and still getting stark white BFNs. Im so anxious that something is wrong or it could be ectopic.
Im crossing my fingers for your next cycle xx

Just from experience, my friend had an ectopic pregnancy and she was getting blazing positives on FRER's and the weeks on a digi were going up. She only realised she was having an ectopic because she started bleeding.
I wouldn't assume you are having an ectopic or you could be pregnant and something is going wrong. It could just mean you ovulated later than normal, or your having a weird cycle. If you are getting BFN's on test at 8 days late the chances are it is just a messed up cycle and your not pregnant. we all have them now and again.