What do you guys think? (Long)

[allycat]

I cant stand the thought of having his son every sunday and every other weekend. That means we cant ever have any time together just the 3 of us.

I understand how important it is for him to see his son however I think once our baby is here we have to come to some compromise. I think we should have his son for the whole weekend every other weekend and maybe one or 2 days after school for the evening as it is only fair.

Maybe you should mention this to your OH?? Come to a compromise that suits everyone??

I don't think you're being selfish at all. Of course you're gonna want weekend time just the 3 of you. The thing that annoys me is that this is "our" place and not just my OH's place. We moved in together so he needs to consider me too. I will never stop him seeing his son, but things are gonna come up and I don't think anything can ever be set in stone; compromises always have to be made to keep everyone happy.