Well looks like I'm back!!

[redbear]

Hi guys it's been a while! I first joined this forum in 2011 while ttc my eldest daughter it took 12 months to get a bfp, my second daughter Temperance came very quickly after. Well Alice is almost 4 and Tempy almost 3 and me and my dh are talking number three!! This time it's him that is talking about wanting another but we have a lot going on this year so I want to wait.
It sounds so silly but we are going to a 30th weekend away in march, on a family holiday July and a festival for a day August. I would love a baby now but it's not the right time for me.
I've also lost 4 stone and want to loose more so that I don't have to be under consultant care etc.

For now the coil is firmly in place... but it's only a matter of time and im so excited!! Xx

 

[millielaura]

Awww how exciting welcome back xx

 

[redbear]

I know I'm stupidly giddy even though we are not even ttc yet!! Silly I know but the fact dh wants another makes me happy xx

 

[Loula]

Welcome back.
I'm still trying to persuade oh. His brother has had a 2nd and the stories he tells are putting my oh off x

 

[russellmuscle]

Welcome back RB

3 is a brave number. Good luck sweets!!

I got thrown abruptly back here after my coil failed..

xxx

 

[millielaura]

Awww it's really exciting . Bet you can't wait xxx

 

[Donna88]

How exciting. Welcome back to the waiting room

 

[redbear]

Yes i must be mad, i love having two girls and touch wood at the minute its a pretty easy life (touch wood) im lucky i have two good sleepers and three seems right. Its not a lot is it? i thought three was a 'normal' amount of babies! xx

 

[russellmuscle]

Well Im having 3 hopefully...

I want a whole house to have family nights with!

I just think its a big leap making 2 to the 3.

Im scared to take the leap from 1, to 2! But we are here in TTC

xxxx

 

[redbear]

maybe because i have got used to two it doesnt seem so scary. the thing that worries me is kind of silly but ive just got really back close with my friends. ive been friends with them my whole life but for about 3 years while i had kids we lost touch, we are super close now but im worried ill loose them again xx

 

[russellmuscle]

I hear ya.

My friends and I have kinda drifted apart but tbf for the minute its the best. I work full time. So when Im not at work I like to spend time with Jackson, and OH works quite a bit too. Trying to get a relationship with people on balance is hard.

Perhaps look at specific reasons you fell away in the first place and dont let it happen? Ie remember to text them, like wise them for you. Friendship is a two way street!

xxx

 

[redbear]

Yeah i know, i think i needed it to drift appart, but we have poker nights now and parties, i could maybe still go to poker nights. Im hoping one of them gets pregnant so i have a companion hahaha xx

 

[Loula]

They say it's harder going from 1 to 2 babies anything more is a lot easier.
Friends haha what are they I have no time to see anyone. Hoping when I move and I'm at home more I'll have time x

 

[russellmuscle]

It probably has alot to do with what children your assigned too

Jackson was such a chilled out, text book baby. Not so sure thatll happen twice in a row though

xxxx

 

[redbear]

hahaha that made me giggle, i didnt have friends for w while baby and toddler group helped there i do have some good life long friends.

I didnt really jump from one to two i only had 4 months not pregnant hahaha xx

 

[russellmuscle]

I remember you getting pregnant fast RB.

I did initially want another when J was 6m, then I had a scare and genuinely shit myself. Then after I went back to work reality set in tbh...

Im getting really broody now though, only because Jackson is getting so independent!!

xxxx

 

[redbear]

Yes I did really fast it took a year ttc with Alice so we stupidly thought it would take a while again. But we love it and tbh it's been nice having two they play and laugh together.... I just want ttc now though!!!