HI i thought i was just write a post with a positive note, I just had a weekend away woth my OH, 1st weekend away without mobile phones, and other people, my mum kindly took our son for the weekend, that was the only down side to it as I missed him like crazy. But my OH and I had a great time, booked into some luxuary apartments in Edinburgh for the weekend it was only £140 for both nights, just what we where needing after the stressful 18 months weve been having, Im thinking this is the end of the 'Hard' part after having our son. Thank god for that as there has been several times where I never thought we could pull through it as a couple XkelX