suppose it's individual choice as long as the baby is fed regularly when you offer it water it'll take it if it wants it and will ignore it if it doesn't, Abi would never take much until she was about 5 months in Oz they encourage you to give them water so i suppose the advice all over is different main point being it WILL NOT harm your baby to give it water, i think they research into too much stuff nowadays, babies were fine years ago before all this research was done and thats why with Abi i do what i think/feel is right and she has no problems at all, how can something that was good for them years ago suddenly be bad? there are a lot more children with asthma and getting bad tummy upsets these days and it's all down to mothers being too sterile, my sister in law used to sterilise my nieces dummy even when she started playing with toys that had been on the floor she was not obsesive but did sterilise when there wasn't a need the first time my niece went to a kiddies play centre she ended up in hospital with gastorentaritous (sp sorry) because she had been kept too sterile yet todays research would say she wasn't too sterile, i stopped sterilising her dummy everytime she dropped it about 2 months ago (unless it's on the floor outside) and so far all is well their bodies need to be used to germs from young age.
Another thing is i was told by my HV that the reason they say you shouldn't start solids until 6 months now is to protect the babies in 3rd world countries. something to do with them being weaned at 4 months and getting diseases from the water (obviously contaminated/dirty in 3rd world)and not being strong enough to fight them and dying - why should this affect my baby when she is not living in a 3rd world country? what do others think?
Sorry to hve gone off topic but just showing an example about how over the top the so called experts are.
I believe if you do what you feel is right you wont go wrong.
Another thing is i was told by my HV that the reason they say you shouldn't start solids until 6 months now is to protect the babies in 3rd world countries. something to do with them being weaned at 4 months and getting diseases from the water (obviously contaminated/dirty in 3rd world)and not being strong enough to fight them and dying - why should this affect my baby when she is not living in a 3rd world country? what do others think?
Sorry to hve gone off topic but just showing an example about how over the top the so called experts are.
I believe if you do what you feel is right you wont go wrong.