Update, fear and concern

[Kittens84]

Hi Everyone.

well after finding out I was pregnant on Sunday, I ended up in hospital on Tuesday with a potential ectopic pregnancy. I have never been so frightened in my life, I had just got my head around being pregnant and then potentially it would be taken away.

Good news is I am 7 weeks pregnant, and saw a scan of my little baby, I was fortunate enough to have my partner with me (we had a few problems with a nurse on my overnight stay and I was really angry and hurt by the way I was treated). I have another scan in two weeks to see how I am getting on, as unfortunately I was meant to be having twins, however I have lost one of them as it left the womb and is currently in limbo (but is the cause of my pain in my stomach) I also have a blood clot which is near my womb, which could trigger a miscarriage.

I'm sorry to ramble on here, but as much as I am happy about being pregnant, I am also terrified incase I lose it and I have my hopes up for nothing. Has anyone else gone/ going through something similar? I hate the waiting now and the not knowing.

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[Tell]

i havnt but just wnated to send you all my love and hugs xoxoxox

 

[Daydreaming]

I'm afraid I am no help either, but sending you Best wishes.

I think we are all a bit scared during the first few months, everytime I go to the loo I am petrified that I may see blood, and every tummy cramp could be a Bad-cramp?! But I try to put the worries aside, they say the calmer you are during pregnancy the better it is for baby. Just try to take things easy (NO BUNGEE JUMPING!), rest up and have some choc.

Virtual hugs for you!

 

[Kittens84]

Lol@ Bungee Jumping - now theres an idea!! Im being good ladies I promise, since being released from hospital yesterday all ive done is sleep, watch crap on tv and be online, oh and eat since I wasnt allowed for 24 hours lol anything for a simple life xxxx

 

[Amyrose]

i had a blood clot on my womb when i was having my little girl. I bleed on and off through my pregnancy. they scanned me to make sure the clot didnt get to big and i had a beautiful baby at the end of it. try to relax hun as hard as it is. xxxxx

 

[BumbleTumble]

i havnt been through this, but am scared of it happening!

much love and hugs, and, as said above, try to relax
xxx

 

[BabyBrain]

oh hun I am so sorry about your baby. The waiting game is just awful, you must try to relax.

My cousin had a miscarriage, they scanned her to see if everything had passed and found she was still carrying 2 babies. They are now 24 , which makes me feel very old, with children of their own.

Try to stay positive and sending you my best wishes xxxxxxxxx