Unmarried Asian girl

[Jasmin110]

I'm a 37 year old British Asian(Indian), who is currently 6 weeks pregnant with my white boyfriend who my parents don't know about , because my family would not approve, because he already has 2 kids with 2 different women so my parents would disown me if they found out. I really want the baby as been with my boyfriend 2years now who adores me and is going to support me through this. He is a good dad as he sees the other 2 children every week and pays for them both.

I previously had 2 terminations in past with other ex's, feel like I cannot do it again and want this baby, but my parents will disown me They have done alot for me , supported me financially and expect me to marry someone different to who I love. I'm in despair right now.

Please can I have advice.

 

[chattychar1990]

Personally I think it’s your life and you should do what you want to do.
Your parents will come around eventually. They will have a grandchild.

 

[Sjf0709]

You have to do what is right for you and your baby. You can’t please your parents all of your life otherwise you will be living a lie and be unhappy. If your parents can’t accept your BF and their new unborn grandchild then it’s their loss. It’s easy to say as an outsider I know but you just have to do what is right for you and if you are happy with your bf and being pregnant then that sounds perfect x

 

[SockVortex]

My sister-in-law (a British Indian) hid her relationship with my brother from her parents for four years for fear of the same thing.

She finally told them a few months ago. Their only reaction was to say ‘Oh, you should invite him round for tea.’

Honestly, they might surprise you.

 

[Jasmin110]

My sister-in-law (a British Indian) hid her relationship with my brother from her parents for four years for fear of the same thing.

She finally told them a few months ago. Their only reaction was to say ‘Oh, you should invite him round for tea.’

Honestly, they might surprise you.

 

[Jasmin110]

My sister-in-law (a British Indian) hid her relationship with my brother from her parents for four years for fear of the same thing.

She finally told them a few months ago. Their only reaction was to say ‘Oh, you should invite him round for tea.’

Honestly, they might surprise you.

Positive words thank you

 

[Jasmin110]

You have to do what is right for you and your baby. You can’t please your parents all of your life otherwise you will be living a lie and be unhappy. If your parents can’t accept your BF and their new unborn grandchild then it’s their loss. It’s easy to say as an outsider I know but you just have to do what is right for you and if you are happy with your bf and being pregnant then that sounds perfect x

Thank you. I do really want this baby and it will destroy me if I didn't, just scared of my parents re-action as know they may disown me. That will hurt.

 

[Jasmin110]

Personally I think it’s your life and you should do what you want to do.
Your parents will come around eventually. They will have a grandchild.

I really hope so , as known they may disown me.