TTC is making me crazy!

[Hmmm]

Same boat here came of the pill 2 wednesdays ago to start casually TTC now im finding it really hard to not get my hopes up I think i ovulated last week as my left ovary was really hurting but i know the chances of that are slim going to do a test next wednesday and im really trying not to get my hopes up

It’s hard not to try and track where you’re at isn’t it! I imagined it’d be so easy.. come off the pill, DTD a lot then BAM BFP two weeks later. How wrong I was!!! 😂 fingers crossed for you!! Keep me updated for when you get your BFP xx

So hard not to :S gonna test tomorrow just incase but feel like its too early if i have ovulating. Good luck to you!!

 

[Maximus17]

It’s so nice to have a place where I can be crazy. No one in real life would understand this

 

[Alexis2017]

Yeah I am struggling to even keep ttc now. I feel like it has broke me. I used to be such a motivated, positive & determined person and this has made me so negative and a quitter. It has certainly taken me to the edge. I no for sure I will struggle to do this for 3 years. I will hold out for ivf but not sure if I will even recognise myself by that point.

 

[Sunflower1]

Yeah I am struggling to even keep ttc now. I feel like it has broke me. I used to be such a motivated, positive & determined person and this has made me so negative and a quitter. It has certainly taken me to the edge. I no for sure I will struggle to do this for 3 years. I will hold out for ivf but not sure if I will even recognise myself by that point.

Sorry you are having such a hard time Alexis. I totally get it. I was in a total state. Now we are doing the AI it's not as much stress as we have more control as to exactly when we time it. Still can't control if it happens but we can control absolutely everything else.

I think it's natural to feel negative after a while. I do. I hope the ivf is successful. Someone should write a book about staying sane while TTC!! xx