This ttc malarky is hard work!!!

[Tanya4beauty]

Is anyone else feeling my frustrations!!!
I'm becoming a poas addict, doing opk's twice a day. I had some faint lines appear and then nothing, I'm still testing but they are all negative. I should have ov about 3/4 days ago but yesterday I had a lot of ewcm (sorry tmi). So last night I thought I'd jump on hubby when he got in but as he didn't get home from work til 10.30 (he works shifts) he was too bloody tired!! He said can't it wait til the morning, which we did but I'm convinced the last couple of times we bd'd he hasn't delivered the goods!! As you girls know it's kinda messy normally and I just ain't been getting that!! Sorry tmi again!!
I suppose what I'm trying to say is am I putting too much pressure on him? I don't go on about ov or anything but I think it's pretty obvious what I'm doing as we used to bd about once a week!! I will say however that since coming off the pill my sex drive has improved so I'm not totally conning him lol
I'm just getting a bit frustrated with not actually knowing where the hell I actually am in my cycle and then trying to get hubby going to actually deliver is all becoming a bit of a nightmare! We go away in a couple of weeks which would mean a lovely no pressure relaxed week but I'm due the bloody witch!! I know you can take tablets to stop it but it took me 3 months to get my cycle back after the pill and I don't really want to mess around with my hormones anymore!!
Anyway sorry to ramble on, I hope everyone else is having more luck in the bd department than me lol x

 

[ScotchEgg]

I don't know if anyone else has noticed this, but when you talk about messy, I have noticed something that fits. There is no (or very little) mess around ovulation for us. Normally there's a wet patch situation but around ov I keep it all inside. If you're the same as me, this could be a really god sign you're sucking them all up inside...

 

[Tanya4beauty]

Ooh that's good to know, maybe that explains it!! You guys are a bible of knowledge! You may have saved me getting in a hump with him! Lol thanks scotchegg x

 

[Lewa]

I don't know if anyone else has noticed this, but when you talk about messy, I have noticed something that fits. There is no (or very little) mess around ovulation for us. Normally there's a wet patch situation but around ov I keep it all inside. If you're the same as me, this could be a really god sign you're sucking them all up inside...

That's interesting! I never thought about that! But I DID notice it was less messy these past few days (around ovulation) hm. Interesting!