Can somebody with a teenage girl please tell me whats normal? DD's is messy, make up, jewellery everywhere, empty cupboards and clothes hung on the floor. She gets to a point where she's too messy then will blitz it so I dont nag her to do it. OH on the other hand thinks she lives like a pig and goes mental about it whereas I think she lives normal for age and leave her to it and we've nobody to compare her with!